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Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit (10 Piece)
$114.99
Key features
- 10-piece bondage and strap-on kit for overhauling your toy box and trying something new
- Core items made from silicone, faux leather and strong Nylon
- Perfect for beginner and intermediate bondage couples looking to take the next step in power play
- Each toy can be enjoyed independently or as part of the set for custom play sessions
- Everything is compatible with water-based lube
Description
Exert your dominance with this 10-piece BDSM kit and explore the erotic world of power play and strap-on sex. With under-bed restraints that turn any bed into a four-poster, a breathable ball gag, blindfold and more, any bedroom can be a bondage room.
Once restrained, take control of your sub’s senses with the flogger, wired bullet vibe and nipple suckers, or transform your scene into a strap-on fantasy with the universal harness and dildo set.
Don’t forget to pick up some lube to make use of your kit straight away. We recommend either the Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lube, or Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lube.
Kit includes:
– A blindfold for sensory deprivation
– A flogger for beginner tickler and whipping fun
– 2 x silicone nipple suckers for introductory nipple play
– A breathable ball gag for first-time gag wear
– A wired bullet vibrator for all-over buzz
– 4 x cuffs for ankle and wrist restraint
– A 4-way under-mattress strap system for four-poster style bondage
– A silicone suction cup dildo for penetrative pleasure
– An adjustable universal harness with 3 interchangeable O-rings for strap-on and pegging adventures
– Full instructions to help get you started
| Allergens | Phthalate-Free |
|---|---|
| Features | Set |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Battery Info | 2 x AAA batteries |
| Power Type | Batteries (not included) |
| Vibration speed | Speeds and patterns |
| Circumference | 4.75 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 inches |
| Maximum Harness Size | 65 inches |
| Flexibility | Firm |
| Material | Silicone |
24 reviews for Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit (10 Piece)
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Smultron (verified owner) –
Blown away
This bondage kit comes in a box that seemed to be a bit too small, so at first glance (and before opening it) I was a bit skeptical. Thankfully, the contents did not disappoint! There were instructions for use on the back of the box which would be extremely helpful for a beginner. Overall good build and quality of materials. All items are easy to clean (except the ball gag as mentioned below) and easy to store. The blindfold, ball gag and strap-on harness all have the same leather-like pattern and feel, I love that they are different than those you can usually find. BLINDFOLD It is comfortable to wear and it fit me, but it didn’t ‘sit’ right on my partner. He could still get glimpses of what was happening, so we used a different blindfold instead. That was the only problem we had, as all the other items were amazing! BALL GAG Breathable with adjustable buckle fastening for right fit. Comfortable, sexy and does its job. The only downside is that it can be rather hard to clean/ disinfect, like all breathable gags. FLOGGER I loved it!!! It’s small but can be quite powerful. The rubber tails (latex-free nonetheless) are ideal for inflicting various levels of pain. I started with gentle tickles and built up to painful lashes on his back and bum. It certainly added to our experience. NIPPLE SUCKERS I’m not a fan of nipple play, but my partner really appreciated these silicone nipple suckers. His nipples are quite sensitive, so he preferred the gentle suction over using nipple clamps. They are very easy to use and, although they initially look weird when you put them on, the sensation makes up for it. WRIST and ANKLE CUFFS The cuffs are pretty basic and not that comfortable to wear. They could really use some padding and extra width, but they are good enough. For those that like it quite rough, they can certainly chafe the skin but they can also be somewhat easy to get out of. The velcro fastenings on all cuffs make it super easy to adjust them so that they’ll be exactly as tight as you want them to be. I think that the quick-release clips are a huge plus. Firstly and most importantly, it’s extremely easy to set your sub free in case of emergency. It will take way less time that trying to untie knots or using scissors to cut them free. Secondly, they make the cuffs quite versatile: you can attach them to the under-mattress restraint that comes in the kit or to anything else, really. UNDER-MATTRESS RESTRAINT Along with the bullet and the strap-on, this made the top three! Very practical, good quality, sturdy, versatile and should fit most beds. According to the instructions two people are required to set up the under-mattress restraint, but I didn’t have any trouble setting it up on my own. However do note that this wasn’t my first rodeo. WIRED BULLET VIBRATOR Uses 2xAAA batteries and is pretty powerful. It’s interesting with the various speeds and patterns and it can be fun trying to find the one you (or your partner) like(s) the most. I thought it was too much of a hassle having the controller and a thin cable in the way, though. It can be used on its own or inserted in the dildo that’s also included in this kit – then the dildo can be used on its own or attached to the strap-on harness. DILDO We didn’t get much out of using it on its own or with the bullet vibrator, but we both loved it on the strap-on harness! The silicone feels really smooth and the curve makes it hit our spots. Best used with a water-based lubricant. STRAP-ON Hands off (pun intended) the best item in this kit. I love both pegging and having my male partners wear a strap-on. It’s comfortable, fully adjustable and will fit most body types. When I am wearing this my partner can both play with my clit and use other toys on and in me. When he is wearing it we can either go for double penetration, or for single penetration if he’s wearing his cage. Both of us loved using it with the purple dildo that’s in this kit, but the 3 interchangeable O-rings allow us to use a variety of dildos in different sizes and girths depending on the moment. I would strongly recommend this for couple play, but some of the items can also be used for solo play – for example the nipple suckers, bullet vibrator and dildo. Overall I think this is an amazing kit for beginners and somewhat seasoned kinksters alike. Nothing overly extreme (in my opinion) but it definitely offers more than the average bondage or BDSM kit.
tallandshort (verified owner) –
Let her take control
This is the perfect kit for any straight couple who want to try a bit of role reversal and bondage. The strap on harness is unisex allowing for a bit of DP as well as pegging. The included dildo is well sized without being intimidating. The inclusion of different sized o-rings allows you to use some larger toys when ready. There is a lot of size adjustment available. The only downside is that there is no quick release buckle so you have to loosen it to take it off then readjust it when putting it back on. The included wired vibrating egg fits nicely inside the included dildo adding some extra stimulation. The ball gag is made from nice soft silicone but is solid apart from 3 holes which gives it a nice weight. The strap slightly let’s it down in quality. The blindfold is nicely padded but again the quality of the material is not the best. The included nipple suckers we already own but it is nice to have a second set so we can both use them. They don’t have the greatest suction but enough to heighten the senses of those sensitive areas. If you don’t have under bed restraints already these work fine but the cuffs are not padded which would have been nice. The actual under bed harness is perfectly usable though. Personally I would have preferred a leather tasseled whip than the string one included but if this is your first time trying bondage and spanking it’s a good starting point.
Captainkieran (verified owner) –
Weeks of fun
Having recently purchased this we have to say we are very impressed for the price would highly recommend to an adventurous couple having tried all the toys apart from the strap on (new to strap on fun) all are high guality and we can’t wait to update our review once the strap on has been used 😉
Maturecpl (verified owner) –
Super Wow
We have been experimenting in to bondage and have found this kit to be so helpful. As the ( sub femail half) I will advise of my side and feelings. To start with the whole quality is of the highest order. The cuffs and ties are a good standard and easy release but very secure The tickler very erotic when used correctly as a tickler or light whipping of lower parts or breasts.The handle can also can be used to insert in the bottom yo show a little tail. lol. I found the gag larger than the one we have but breathable and very erotic. I struggled a little to start with but now cant wait to have it fitted on me. The blind fold is comfortable and does the job. The nipple suckers ,,, My god !!! I have smallish breasts and small sensitive nipples . With these easily attached my nipples grow twice as long and get super sensitive . Last but not least the strap on. mmmm It is nice with the vibe inserted but to be honest It is used on me anally and my goodness it works and is so sexy.. This I also use on hubby . His first time pegging. To start with he couldn’t take the beautiful dildo, I had to use a smaller vibe then introduce this fab dildo in to him So erotic .The vibrator is powerful and works for me on my clitoris to bring orgasm. We love this kit and find different way of making our enjoyment. We highly recommend this to any couple who are in to this xx
Reviewer1990 (verified owner) –
Amazing
My partner & I have enjoyed every part of this kit! Everything is great quality, easy to use and hits the spot! Highly recommend for couples starting out with bondage etc as it gives you a bit of everything. The strap on was a particular favourite having never tried “proper” pegging and the dildo is the perfect size for starting out!
Lover L. (verified owner) –
Pussy magic
At this time, I have only used the kit for solo play, but thought I might still write a review. The nipple suckers- The nipple suckers when you first get them, they are a little bigger in the hand than expected, however, what they do is so so so worth it. You can choose how light or hard you want the suction on your nipples. For solo play I used one of the suckers on my clitoris pushing the knob in and out so that it gave me somewhat of a female blowjob, it felt amazing. The dildo/strap on- Upon trying on the harness, it is very comfortable and so easy to put on once you figure it out first. Unfortunately for me, the dildo couldn’t go in too far but, I am extremely tight being a lesbian that doesn’t usually stimulate vaginally. I may have to buy a smaller one for me but hopefully my current/future partner will enjoy. The dildo itself is very soft and smooth, allowing pretty easy entry. It also isn’t as hard as it looks in the photos, however it’s not the bendiest, it has a slightly forceful bendiness to it. I love that the dildo has a little spot where the vibrator can go into. Looking forward to using it with my partner, and great for solo play. The vibrator- OMG! It has ten different setting and holy shit!! Really got me there and very easily. Good that it has two different parts that are connected so that you can use it easily with the strap-on, it would be uncomfortable having to go in and change the setting compared to having it on the side and just pressing a button. Overall, very happy with he quality of everything, really good for the price you pay! Even though I haven’t used it with a parter yet, I’m still so happy!
Nats123 (verified owner) –
Not what we hoped
Bought this kit and sadly not worth the money we paid for it. Bought a lot of things from love honey and this is the biggest disappointment so far. Came in a tiny box. Wish we didn’t bother taking all the items out to give it the benefit of the doubt and instead returned it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great Purchase!
My partner and I recently bought this and we do not regret it whatsoever. It has all the essentials for getting into BDSM. We did not expect to like the whip nearly as much as we do: the sting lasts for maybe an hour or two and feels wonderful. The strap-on is nicely sized, pretty small, but neither of us are skilled at penetration so it is actually an incredibly comfortable size. The ball gag is perfect for being gagged for long periods of time because it is breathable. The blindfold is incredibly comfortable and applies a lovely amount of pressure, almost like a weighted blanket, while blocking out all light entirely. We have yet to try the vibrator but we love the design. Overall, fantastic buy!!!!!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great kit for beginners
First time using, using it all was some much fun
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great product!
Love the kit, it’s been a lot of fun for my partner and I, I accidentally broke one of the cuffs the first day but that was completely on me. Definitely recommend! Everything is comfortable and lots of fun
Couple n. (verified owner) –
Peggingtastic
Firstly here you are getting great value for money even when not in the sale, the variety of products included make this a fantastic starter kit or just an awesome addition to the ‘sex draw’ no matter what sort of couple you may be. I will point out nipple play for us is just not our thing so nipple suckers haven’t been tested.I’ll start with the strap on, we have had a couple before this one similar then a double ended but this is absolutely amazing, it’s comfortable to wear and also adjustable which makes it sit in place perfectly. The rings make it perfect for interchanging dildos you may already own, the one it comes with is soft and not too big if your a first timer or if you enjoy a more ‘normal’ size let’s say. My sissy enjoy me using this on him, the sounds he was making were incredible and the pleasure he received was fantastic. It held in place, didn’t slip down which others have so definitely we are both very pleased with this purchase and it will become a regular fixture in the bedroom.
Lovehoney-Lo35 (verified owner) –
Perfect Starter Kit
This kit is great for beginners, it has a lovely range of different sex toys and bondage products…it’s certainly good value and I would recommend it to anyone who is thinking about buying it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great for Beginners
Great Product! works well for my partner and I, as we are just beginners!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
The bed restrains strap broke
The bed restrains strap broke during use. They’re made of a nylon material. It could definitely be better. Also, the dildo is at kind of an intense angle and can be painful if used too intensely. Flogger is a lot smaller than I imagined and is made of a rubber material, which makes it a little more intense. I think though, that it is a good starter kit, and my partner and I enjoyed everything else!
Michael (verified owner) –
Harness works better than expected
I bought this kit along with the Doc Johnson 9″ and the harness gave me excellent control during anal penetration of my partner.
L (verified owner) –
Great for beginners
We brought this Bondage Kit after looking into bondage and pegging for a while. This kit offered us the perfect selection of products for the price. The harness is very comfortable and has adjustable straps which can fit multiple shapes and sizes. I personally have a curvy bum and thighs but the harness doesn’t dig in or leave marks after use. The accompanying Dildo is the perfect size for us (maybe too big for first timers). When in use neither product slips or moves. The Whip isn’t the best we own but again for beginners it’s the perfect starting point. The Under-Bed Restraints are disappointing, they do dig into both wrists and ankles (not in the good way) and the straps slip around the mattress no matter how much you adjust the length. This does ruin the thrill of being fuller at the mercy of your lover. Overall this is a great kit for beginners, once you know what you do and do not like in the kit you can upgrade or replace single products to meet your evolving needs and desires.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
As advertised excellent quality
Arrive quickly and in good shape high quality items.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Sex
it has been very good to use railed my burd with it and used all the pieces
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great value!
The vibrator was surprisingly strong and effective and works great! The dildo is at a somewhat sharp angle, but still works well. The under bed kit is just ok, works fine for beginners. The flogger and ball gag are absolutely excellent as well
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Good fun
First time users but everything does what it should a both had fun
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
A great way to explore with your partner.
I brought this kit for me and my boyfriend to explore new things. The kit works perfectly for us both as we can use the items in each other. The price was great for this kit and I’d definitely recommend it to a first time explorer bc you can use all these things in many different ways. The only thing was the under bed restraints don’t seem to fit on a double mattress. I may be fitting them wrong but At the moment I can’t see a way of them fitting. Other than that everything is perfect. The toys included are really well made and packaged. My favourite being the remote vibe that your partner gets to controll as well as the little whip that comes as well. Safe to say bith me and my boyfriend experienced a really good time.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Bondage fun
First time trying this out and it was so fun to try
TypicalHeteroMale (verified owner) –
Pretty Good Kit
My wife surprised me with this and we’ve had a lot of fun with it since. We have tried the strapon but it’s not really our thing. Feels good and a good size but not really our style. The restraints are great. Very comfortable and sturdy. The whip while blindfolded certainly added some tension to sex and the blindfold itself is very effective at blindfolding which I feel is something that can hard to come by. I found the nipple suction cups to hurt but I do have sensitive nipples. Big fan of the gag, breathable and has no noticeable odour. I’m not entirely sure what the vibrating thing is for and how it’s designed to be used but we tried just shoving it up me and it feels pretty good if you keep it in the right place. Very good kit for spicing up the bedroom if you’re both looking to experiment.
Give_it_ago (verified owner) –
Tickled our fancy
Everything as it was described, lots of sexual and sensual fun to be had by all people, everything feels nice from toys to blindfold to little whip to wrist and ankle bindings, the bullet vib stopped working, lits of fun when it was working