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If you’re not using the Lovehoney Double Fun Realistic Vibrating Double Penetrator, then you’re one penis short of a real good time. Featuring an authentically shaped shaft to complement your own member with tandem anal penetration, and 2 bullet vibes.
Leave no hot spot unstimulated as this athletic silicone toy dives inside your lover’s bottom while you thrust into them. The cock and ball rings add a gentle constriction that may help enhance your erection in both size and staying power, for long-lasting and extra-satisfying sessions.
Max out on your double penetration pleasure potential by using the penetrator with water-based lubricant.
| Allergens | Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free |
|---|---|
| Features | Double Penetration |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Battery Info | 2 x N batteries |
| Power Type | Batteries (included) |
| Vibration speed | Speeds and patterns |
| Circumference | 4 inches |
| Insertable Length | 5.5 inches |
| Length | 7.5 inches |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Material | Silicone |
Cupcake5408 (verified owner) –
DP to the next level
Well I wasn’t to sure if to order as husband was abit worried about putting it around balls with a small bit of lube it went on no trouble and the virbrations are seriously good from such a little bullet this was the best dp toy comfy when on and felt amazing to have hands free fun and make want to explore dp more
Kendle26 (verified owner) –
Not realistic enough
The fit was fine but the i didnt like the end of the penis…. it was to thick and didnt feel comfortable i even tried it on the husband if i play so does he thats the rule. Love packaging its always great knowing the postman doesn’t know whats in his hand hehe
Malcolm (verified owner) –
Unreal fun
always fantasied about DP and this really did feel great. however the bullet was not much good and could do without. The ball sack ring is very tight and took some effort to get on but once on this does help with delay and enhances the erection. We tried it in a position where the toy was used in the vagina rather than anal and that worked well. Really good fun and will be used over and over again.
Lucifear616 (verified owner) –
The idea is good but this toy isn’t the way to go for us
We bought this toy a little while ago and since then have tried to used it on a few occasions, each time ending in failure, the probing part of the toy is far more rigid than expected, you’d think this might help but the unsteadiness of the hold it makes the toy even harder to use. No matter how much lube we used this toy just did not work for us on the bright side the two little vibrators are great fun to play with both sexually and otherwise with good strength and variation of patterns so at least it wasn’t a complete waste of money.
Lv2play (verified owner) –
Wow
My partner and I love this toy. The vibrations for both of us are great and really make for an intense climax. Definetly needs quite a lot of lube to get on as my partner felt it was a bit tight. Easy to clean. Quite a quiet toy. A firm favourite, pleased with purchase.
Brookemb (verified owner) –
Good for anal newbies but could be better
My partner and I only just started to try anal and wanted something different as we both loved the thought of DP. This was perfect. It’s easy to use and a nice size for beginners. The negative is that the dildo could be more life like and by that I mean softer and more flexible. I like going on top with this and doing DP that way but there isn’t much give which mto and it can be a bit uncomfortable.
Screamingwife (verified owner) –
Double pleasure
My husband surprised me with this for my birthday. Reasonably new to anal I wasn’t sure. Lube needed, but once in………Ohh, the feeling! Never want to go back. Slides nicely, not too wide or long. Feels cold on entry. This was just right for both of us. Vibrations were an added bonus. Good all round and easy to clean.
Aldwark (verified owner) –
Begging for it
After foreplay my wife now begs me to use this on her. It needs plenty of lubricant but once we get going its great. A bit fiddly at first but once you get used to it, its a breeze. Ive also used this the other way round so i can take my wife from behind while anally penetrating her with they beads
Pinkiee (verified owner) –
Great idea, but too small
We loved the idea of this double fun, but it was just way too small for my partner to use and we didn’t get to try it, the vibrations were really powerful on the bullets which were great, but again the loops were too small for both the penis and balls. Even with a lot of lubricant applied. Way too tight.
Ht0611 (verified owner) –
Threesome without three people
I found it at first to be abit fiddly to get one as the cock ring was very tight but once it was one there was no disomfort whatsoever. The size and shape of the penetrator where absolutely perfect and gave my girlfriend intense orgasms without the use of the bullets. The clitoral bullet hit perfectly and once we found the right speed setting she experienced intense orgasms. It can be abit annoying to change the patterns so we usually just set one and leave it how it is. The bullet in the penetrator wasn’t particularly noticeable but that could be because of the overwhelming combination or clitoral, vaginal and anal stimulation. Overall once a vibration pattern is set and the toy is fitted on it is really easy to use and feels amazing for both parties and can be used as a very pleasurable anal toy if your going solo
Lottieanne (verified owner) –
Great but not for us
I found it difficult to use at first for multiple reasons. I also found that my partner struggled with it to. Remember it’s only our experiences the overall toy is a great little thing that would be great for others. Firstly the cock ring was very tight, my partner had to use one only. This could be due to it being odd for him or it could be because we are not used to less give in the rings. The size and shape of the penetrator were absolutely perfect but it was so hard and solid that my partner accidentally hurt me and he wasn’t feeling it at all. We tried it multiple ways but it just hurt. Maybe one day we will find it different. The clitoral bullet hit perfectly great though and often still use the bullets without the whole toy. The bullets themselves are very powerful The bullet in the penetrator wasn’t easy to feel but that could be because of the actual penetrating itself. It could just be material was too thick. It’s something we wished had worked but just didn’t for us. But the actual toy itself is a work of art it’s really easy on the eye and soft texture. It is solid however.
Dulthstranger (verified owner) –
Disappointed
Could not fit the product over my partners genitals. It was to tight and doesn’t have much give. He also complained it was very tight on his penis. We used loads of lube, but the toy seemed to absorb it. We finally gave up on the genital attachment, and just it anyway, but it was very uncomfortable for me. We had to lube, insert, painfully remove, relube, insert, painfully remove. Finally we gave up on it, and just used the bullets that are very lovely. The worst part if this toy was that when i tried to wash it with the ‘lovehoney’ toy wash, the toy started to peel. The thought if using this toy again makes me shudder in the wrong way. Absorbs so much lube that it is almost unusable, and NOW it is peeling. I guess I will just cut off the phallic portion of it abd use it as a $40 cock ring.
Cumwithus (verified owner) –
Double stuffed
I suggested this to the other half, after getting a few hints that she wanted to be DP’d. We purchased this as it looked to fit the bill. After it turned up, we were eager to try it out, however the rings are quite tight and had to be trimmed (carefully with a stanley knife). That being said, once it was comfortably on, we tried out several positions, doggy style being the best. Overall, a fantastic purchase.
Cn1977 (verified owner) –
Hands free DP
Interesting contraption which takes some manipulation to get the tight rubber ring around your balls. But once on is fairly secure as it should be. Multi function bullets supplied are good in their own right, but not necessary for this toy which is all about penetration. Our preference is to lube up and let me slip into the OH ass while the (smooth, slightly waxy feeling toy) slips into her pussy
Mellyareid (verified owner) –
Fantastic anal toy
When it first arrived we were a little worried as my other half is quite well endowed, however with the use of some lube it slid on no problem and stayed put and comfortable throughout. Great toy for beginners or experienced anal players. The vibrating bullet sits perfectly in the right spot which means you get all three sensations at once making for a very powerful orgasm.
Ls85 (verified owner) –
DP Fun
We tend to use a separate toy to accompany my partner’s penis when doing DP but thought we’d give this a try. It looks and feels good, it’s very smooth. We’ve only used it once so far and couldn’t get the clit bullet quite in the right place but it will just take a bit of playing around I’m sure. It was great to have both thrusts at the same time.
Ssrsisis (verified owner) –
A good toy for DP
When this arrived me and the husband went straight to the bedroom to experiment. The husband found this easy enough to fit over himself. Once position we were ready to go and my husband found it easy to use. The silicon penis is not the most flexible and can seem to prod a bit but overall a nice experience for a good DP
Ls85 (verified owner) –
Great DP
It takes a few seconds for my partner to get it on but then it lines up perfectly and the buzzing in the shaft is powerful enough. The clit buzzer doesn’t quite get me in the right place to make me orgasm but it still feels good and I just use a lovehoney clit stimulator at the same time. Definitely worth buying.
Gazza80 (verified owner) –
Great might, recommend something smaller for beginners in anal though
Would never have thought of trying this type of toy before but we was talking about my partner having two cocks inside her she ummed at the thought and tried using normal dildos but it was awkward so saw this item and thought what the heck let’s give it a whirl, so after a bit of vigorous foreplay and a little lube around the ball loop and cock-ring parts and the tip of the vibrator I started slowly pushing it in to my partners bottom and my cock in her vagina then started a slow thrusting motion, it was slow going at first but after a few minutes we both got into it more with my cock harder than it’s ever been and her whole body shaking after what felt like for ever I had the best orgasm in ages and she came multiple times and have used it quite a bit since comes out nearly once a week at least
Rose14 (verified owner) –
Double fun
Me and my partner loved this! So easy to use, soft and of a decent size even for beginners. The vibration attached to stimulate the clit is an extra nice addition to help for a more intense orgasm. My partner found it slightly awkward and uncomfortable to attach unless lube was applied so nothing major, would definitely recommend!
Littlelizzybeth (verified owner) –
OMG
I’ve wanted to try this product for a while (after reading some really good reverse harem books 😉), so we decided to order it for my birthday. As per usual, it was delivered in a non descript brown box, along with some other bits 😁. Once kids were asleep, we did a bit of foreplay before whipping this bad boy out. Partner used a tonne of lube, probably too much but he didn’t want it to rub, and put it on. We didn’t use the bullets this time as we just wanted to see what it was like. OMG it’s Amazing! Really easy to use once you get over a few nerves. You feel completely full. Cannot wait to use this again, (I might make it at least once a week!), and will try the bullets next time too.
Mannelito (verified owner) –
Nice, bit a bit tight
Discretely packaged this toy was something I was looking forward to trying. It’s really nice looking and it’s enticing to get on. Once I tried it, well, it’s at least for me a bit tight on the shaft and it’s really hard to get the balls in – if not impossible. Ok, I’m not a big balled guy, so maybe this wasn’t for me. I’ll try it without the ball-strap and see where this goes.
Shaggydog21 (verified owner) –
Buzzin'
I was really excited about this toy, I wanted the feeling of having both holes filled at the same time without the extra person. This really spiced things up in the bedroom. The only downside was the ring that goes around OH balls was too small, we used loads of lube but it wasn’t having it. The vibrations are amazing, I sometimes just use the bullet alone on my clitoras and I have mind blowing orgasm in seconds then go for round 2 or 3. My OH has used this on me on my vagina and anally. Good toy for beginners. I’d like to try something bigger now.
Macca1979 (verified owner) –
I give up
Purchased this product around 8 months back and we have attempted to use it 5 times now failing every time. The actual dildo is way to short to do anything. It won’t stay in any hole at the same time as the other hole I am filling with my own penis because it’s too short and very slim. I’ve tried it in the hole it has been designed for doing dp with as well as the other hole ending up with the same result every time it just not being able to meet the cut. I’ve attempted to use it in every position possible and it still again did not meet the cut just coming out every time I’d thrust with my penis in one hole back and forth. The ring that goes around your balls to hold it in place is also very tight and hard to put on as well as when on is very uncomfortable almost painful. This toy is no good unless you have a 3-4 inch penis. Only things I’ve been able to use since having this product have been the removable vibrating bullets although one has now stopped working.
Xoxogx (verified owner) –
Too small
There is very little flexibility in both rings, meaning it is impossible for my partner to put on. Even if he could, I think it would be uncomfortably tight. Unfortunately we haven’t been able to test this product any further due to this, but I’m sure it would have been excellent if it fitted, as the toy has a nice soft feel and includes two bullet vibrators, which can be used separately.
Big2000 (verified owner) –
Very tight
Was very excited about this hoping to give the other half a 3 way DP experience. We didnt get on with it very well tho, I struggle to get it on being a little on the wide side and my balls are sensitive I dont like forcing them into things! I struggled to stretch them over my balls then I managed to get it round my penis and we started to try and have sex but it wasnt as easy as I was hoping. We did it doggy dildo in vagina penis in ass and it wasn’t ideal. Probably should have tried it the other way round bit it was so tight I didnt dare try again.
Annieathome (verified owner) –
Love this
Was a bit dubious about trying this but soon realised it was worth buying, we don’t really use the vibrator that comes with it but find it’s fine without it, it’s a good size and def hits the right spot, can be a little tricky in the beginning but fine once placed properly
Alice (verified owner) –
Love this
I really enjoyed using this but it hurt my partner. We used lube to put it on but even when he started it was really hurting…is that normal? Did anyone else find that it hurt on your penis? Is so did it stop? I would really like to use it more as it does feel nice
Dw82 (verified owner) –
Fantastic
Upon opening, I was a little disappointed with the size. I didn’t honestly think it would any effect for my wife. Whilst I’m certainly not packing anything of significant length, I’m certainly average and a bit, with good girth. The toy really doesn’t have much girth at all. As has been mentioned in other reviews, this is right for fitting. On first use, I genuinely felt my cock was going to explode, it was so hard. The ring that goes over your balls, also is a tight fit, and the ring could do with being a slightly more flexible rubber to be able to stretch easily. As for using-she loves it! She loves anal play as it is, and she really gets off on being filled up in both holes. We did try using it in the doggy position. Me taking her anally, and this in her pussy, but she said it has no effect whatsoever. Something larger, and we may have been successful! Anyhow, missionary, and double plugged-we both last no longer than a few minutes-and that’s without the vibrators used. With them as well, this thing is another level!
Hornycouple2020 (verified owner) –
2 is better than 1
wife was curious about dp, so decided to buy this for her so that we could try it on our own before venturing into a third person, a little hard to get on at first but with a little lube went on fine, just the right size to fit in either hole, and she was soon into it, even more than she thought she would be, nice comfotable fit
Sexphysiology (verified owner) –
very tight
partner and I got this for fun. I’m not really that much above average in size, but the ring itself is extremely snug. its pretty uncomfortable for me. way too constrictive not just for my comfort but for safety. The vibes are great, the dildo is awesome, but the ring for the shaft is extremely tight. I didnt even bother with the ring for the balls. Its disappointing because its such a neat toy. Hopefully they come out with a larger ring for average sized men.
Chivo83 (verified owner) –
Wow
At first the other half was not sure about trying this. After a while she took the plunge and tried and ohh my she loves it very pleading for me also. To say we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves would be a understatement. She has asked me if we can have it every time now.
Bunnybooty8 (verified owner) –
Did not enjoy it
My partner got this for me and we put it straight to the test. It was easy for him to strap on however I didn’t personally enjoy it as it was too stiff for me. We did anal and when he stuck it in, it was painful even if we use heaps of lube. It didn’t really align when we tried to do double penetration.
Pm88 (verified owner) –
Good quality, but too tight
The material is really soft and a bit bendy, which is good, but the rings are both too tight. Mi penis is a above average but not huge and, even thoug I can fit it inside the ring, it´s really tight and it causes me disconfort. I decided to give it a go and grind it with a dremel and after removing quite a bit of material it fits and, once there, it works as you expect it would, so I guess for someone smaller it would be fine. People say they are unable to fit the balls. It took me a while to learn, but the trick is to fit one at a time. Once I realised that I can put it in in no time. It would be useful to have diameter measurements on the product description.
Paddywack (verified owner) –
Best toy ever
Arrived on time and we instantly put it to the test. Ball ring too small for me but this didn’t lesson our fun. My wife couldn’t get enough of it in what ever position we chose. She’s also used it solo and this is now her toy of choice when I’m not available
Km247 (verified owner) –
Twice the fun
This is easily the best thing I’ve ever bought from here, both partners really feel the vibrations during sex. It’s a good size for anal sex but perhaps to large for a beginner. My wife orgasmed so hard she passed out immediately and can’t remember having sex but I do and it was the best night ever
Kelly (verified owner) –
Love this
Personally I’m not big into anal, but we used this for double Vaginal. O.M.G! It is spot on perfect with the different vibrations and it filled me up great for first time experimenting with double vaginal. It’s now our favorite bedroom toy! My hubby is generally a 1x Cummer, this makes him fill me up twice while I’m Ooooing too! Get this! You will not regret it!!
Spankinggoodtime (verified owner) –
Different but fun
Was out first double anything. Definitely need to be in the mood not something you just pull out of the drawer. Bit awkward to put on but takes practice, lube is a must guys and girls don’t forget. Not to big so good for beginners and those who are new to anal. How it’s a drop it when we are hot item
Boomboom (verified owner) –
Boom!
It hits all the right spots! She wants it twice a day now!!!!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
My boyfriend was surprised and
My boyfriend was surprised and amazed how good this felt, for both of us we most definitely recommend this if your trying to spice thing up in the bedroom. Don’t ever be shy to try out new things or positions!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
It works great to do
It works great to do double vaginal on my wife my only complaint is the rings for both the penis and testicles are to tight for me .
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Very fun!
This is the first time using a toy like this after 30 years married. I don’t know why we haven’t done this sooner.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Amazing and fun
While daunting at first it’s amazing for both you and your partner and surprisingly comfortable to wear
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great toy
My wife and I never use toys during sex. I convinced her to try this toy for DP and somehow she agreed. It went well and she really enjoyed it. Now she asks for it. Ring it a bit tight but use the lube. The lube is a must for ring and girls anus.
Xstefani (verified owner) –
Intense vibrations and rock hard materials
So, I wanted to LOVE this product but it was so uncomfortable for the both of us we ended up having to take it off in the first few minutes. I was hopeful when the vibration sticks had many settings and intensities. Once inserted, the shaft was so uncomfortable I was turned off. Then, the penis rings were too tight on both my husband’s penis and balls it ended up hurting us both! Ugh. So disappointed.
fifilaruereview (verified owner) –
Delightfully Pleasurable Double Penetrator
Fiancé and I love incorporating toys in our lovemaking, and this one is a winner for both of us. The poor man is probably tired of me badgering him after every romp, but it’s for science. 🤓He says the double ring design provides great pressure and tension leading up to and during his orgasm.I say it’s a wonderful foray into double penetration, and leaves me feeling delightfully spoiled and utterly naughty. For the anal aficionados, the slimline design is great for beginners who favor smooth, easy contours for insertion. If your partner is taking the dirt road so to speak, this toy does a great job providing additional pressure from within your vagina. We’ve also tried out double penetration with this toy in PIV sex. Insidiously overwhelming and seriously pleasurable! In addition, the bullet vibrators included in the set are very powerful and provide noticeable sensation through the length of the toy.…Though the last time we put this to use, I was so desperate to get it inside me I didn’t give my fiancé the time to grab said bullets. 😳
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
A little too restricting on
A little too restricting on my organ, but otherwise it does a great job.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Not much give in the
Not much give in the rubber rings. If you have any girth this will be hard to use. I put it on semi hard but grew more erect as the session went on and it became painful to use.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Could be fun if you lack girth
I in no way have a large member. It is decidedly average, however when applying the top loop it was so tight that after 5-10mins my penis had turned blue. This product was way too tight for any average dude to fit in to and it was also quite worrying to see the results. If they fixed that, it could be fun to use but until then, I’m out.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Boring
Way too small… very disappointing
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Penis ring too small.
While the toy it’s self was fun to use with my girlfriend, the penis ring it’s self was too small/tight and caused some major bruising along my shaft. Due to that, I can’t recommend it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
The cock rings are very
The cock rings are very small and when you make the purchase there is no way to order different sizes. Other than that it’s a good unit.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Double Delightful
Received it on time, the material used is this item is smooth as glass. We tried it the first day we got it and my wife loved the double penetration. Vibration just right.
TX_guy (verified owner) –
This is a BLAST and a great way to expierence the thrill of a DP
As I almost always say, Lovehoney made the purchase easy and delivery was quick and discrete in plain packaging. They do a wonderful job and you won’t be disappointed using them.We have used this a few times and have had a blast. My wife loves the full feeling it gives her. It will be an item we will regularly use.
Sockx (verified owner) –
New regular!
First I have to say that I cut the ball ring off with scissors. It was too tight and not needed.Me and my wife’s regular sex is cowgirl. And we decided to try this toy for DP. But I love anal so we swapped the toy around and let it rest on my pelvis.A little lube an my wife is on top filled up. It made everything tighter and feel that much better!Wife proceeds to go slow but works up to rodeo speeds in a few minutes. 3 orgasms later and we’re done.This toy has become our new standard way to have sex. We’ve used it about 2-3 times a week for 5 months now and neither of us is tired of it yet!Wife has multiple explosive orgasms and I get as much anal as I can handle! Definitely recommend!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
First time vaginal dp
I bought this to try after my girlfriend wanted me to finger her and fuck her with my dick while we lay on our sides. For a first time vaginal dp for her it’s the an amazing product. We tried this missionary to start, and with lots of lube, within minutes she was shaking and screaming. The vibration is the best feeling for both her and myself as it has different sequences and speed. The dildo is just the right size for optimal enjoyment her as it’s smaller than I am, but large enough to enjoy. This can be used for dp and or I can be inside her and the dildo can rub against her clit during doggystyle. She totally enjoyed it as she moaned and squirted all over me and the bed.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great item
Great item – Mrs loved it, was a good way to start in the DP world x 😉
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great fun
Used this last night for the first time and it’s definitely going to see regular use, she loved it. The spiky bits on the front of the clit stimulator are a bit uncomfortable though so we had to be a bit shallow with it – could do without them – and the ring was a bit tight on me so couldn’t use it for as long as we might have liked. That said, the problems are minor and can be worked around and we absolutely loved using it. Especially at the price point I think it’s great.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Easy and quick
Order arrived early and ordering was easy. Received products were as advertised and good quality.
LovehoneyStaff-Muffin967 (verified owner) –
Double dip!
First time trying DP and really enjoyed this toy. Took a little while for my partner to get it comfortable for him but once we did we both enjoyed this very much. Just enough vibration to stimulate us both. Very enjoyable!
User1479 (verified owner) –
Double Trouble, Double Fun
Whoever designed this toy deserves a medal and a standing ovation. The fit is snug but comfortable, the vibrations are deep and delicious, and the dual-penetration design? Let’s just say it lives up to its name.The biggest thrill is that everyone gets something out of it—whether you’re the giver, the receiver, or both at once. The internal shaft delivers a toe-curling buzz to the wearer, while the external one keeps your partner gasping. It’s basically a two-player game where nobody loses.Rechargeable power keeps the fun going without hunting for batteries mid-session, and the adjustable harness makes it stay put even when things get energetic. My only “complaint”? It’s addictive. Once you try it, vanilla nights start to feel… well, a little underdressed.10/10: Double the pleasure, double the playtime, double the reason to cancel plans.
RumRunner (verified owner) –
Double P
First time using it was a bit awkward, but once we got it sorted it was very funWill definitely be using it more in the future
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Mindblowing but. . . .
The concept is awesome. Very fulfilling for her. Orgasm guaranteed!Can be dangerously painful to put the ring around the balls for him. Must stretch the ring HARD. Very scary. Also hard to take off.Finally, the vibrating bullets are hard to turn on. Make sure you remove the paper from the battery, and turn the cap very tight, and press the button HARD.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Great for traveling as you
Great for traveling as you can take out the vibrators and hide the rest of it!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Experience Necessary
My wife and I are both new to wearables and this was our first experience with one. It delivered on what it promised and we were both happy with the results.A note before purchasing: this product is well-suited to couples who are already comfortable with anal play, as that broadens how you can use it. If that’s not something you’ve explored, you may find the functionality more limited.In terms of positions, there’s a practical rule to keep in mind: positions with face-to-face contact between partners tend to work best for vaginal use, while rear-facing positions naturally lend themselves to anal use. Worth bearing in mind that due to the fit of the wearable, changing positions mid-session isn’t particularly easy, so it helps to decide in advance.I’d recommend spending a few minutes getting familiar with putting it on and taking it off before use – the sizing is snug, particularly the ring, but once fitted it feels secure and the overall effect is noticeably fuller.One thing to be aware of: it may reduce your ability to control the timing of orgasm, so that’s worth factoring in depending on your preferences.Overall, a positive experience. Setting shared expectations with your partner beforehand made a real difference to how smoothly everything went.