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Worn inside one partner’s vagina, the pony measures 3 inches in insertable length and 4.25 inches around with an adjustable fit so you can angle it for tip-top stimulation. The lovingly textured shaft measures 4.5 inches around at its widest point, and slides inside to thrill vaginally or anally.
Ensure tip-top gratification with a splash of water-based lube on both the shaft and the pony.
Crafted from finest silicone, the Lifelike Lover Luxe collection of hyper-realistic dildos offers smooth, sleek and satisfying designs for your endless pleasure. Soft to the touch and irresistibly textured, these luxurious toys deliver supreme stimulation every time.
Pleasure doesn’t have to be complicated. Part of the Lifelike Lover collection.
| Allergens | Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free |
|---|---|
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Circumference | 4.5 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 inches |
| Length | 9 inches |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Material | Silicone |
Kr33 (verified owner) –
Overwhelmingly sexy
The Lovehoney Lifelike Lover realistic dildo has extremely well defined veins and very deep head sitting proudly to attention! Love the fact this bad boy bends and stay in place that addition to strapless strap ons is new and very welcomed idea to us. So silky smooth and definitely has a very luxurious feel I just can’t help stroking it. Even the pale flesh colour is very lifelike and thrilling. The quite weighty toy is sleek, slender and seriously up for anything. Having tried both strap ons and strapless we do for sure prefer the strapless, they are so much easier and quicker to use and remove all lot less fussy. I didn’t have no problem keeping this in place from my point of a female, we find these massive naughty turn ons. Just love my other half (male) when he used the knob end inside me. Plus the fun and satisfaction of him taking the business end was a huge turn on having watching him have orgasm from the p spot is overwhelmingly sexy. We found this a great fit, size and most of all sexually enhanced a great evening of love. This toy will be clear favourite for ours, knowing this dildo is extremely easy to clean is huge bonus we can’t recommend this enough for them extra naughty nights!
Solidius (verified owner) –
Lifelike Lover Luxe Silicone Bendable Strapless Strap-On
The toy comes in frustration free packaging as with all LH items and has no smell to the toy.Its also feels really nice to hold flexible and has a decent weight to it but not overly heavy. I will start the review by saying we are a couple and my wife has had three children this is a big factor for this toy but may not be for others but something to consider. So for this toy to work it requires good pelvic floor muscles.I would say my wife has very good control but when using this to penetrate anally vs vaginally for the recipiant you meet resistantce.Factor this in and we felt we needed to hold the toy in place to get it to work and get started. Now if this was used vaginally both ways it would be different an we feel would work even better. That said the toy is a great size for pegging and there is a good ammount of flex to allow this to happen.This is was our first venture into strapless strapon as we have always used the ones that involve a harness. What i love is the ability to get straight into the fun a harness requires so effort and planning we was able to reach for this in the heat of things as we were ready. As before getting it to stay in place for my wife to penetrate me was a effor for both.Once in position it did work and gave pleasure for both and i have to say made us feel closer during pegging that we ever have before. The toy fit well for both of us and the penis part was well shaped.The flex in the toy is spot on allowing positioning without it flopping down when in use. I love this toy and only loose a few points as its maybe not suituted to out anatomy rather than it being the toys fault.This is a great toy if you have never tried a strapless strapon or even just adding to your collection.
Lr2017 (verified owner) –
Perfect for beginners
The bendability is great, you can pinch in that egg so it holds really tight and slightly angle. The size of the insertable egg is perfect. Once you have inserted the egg bit slightly squeeze it in on the inside and bend the shaft towards you. The feeling of the base of the shaft brushing against your clit is also great. The egg rubs against your G-spot, teaming that with the tight feeling of your clit rubbing against It is constructed extremely well and easy cleaning which is a bonus I will say again I don’t think this is a toy for an absolute beginner and would probably opt for the smaller version of this to start with.
Pansexual C. (verified owner) –
Queer and Kinky Poly Top
Perfect for first timers and harness strapon users alike. This product stays secure! I bought this along with some vibrating kegel balls and have enjoyed strengthening my muscles, but haven’t had the end slip out when using. I insert the end and jack off the dildo head using Sliquid lube and have reached climax from the sensation of the end slightly shifting and from the textured clitorus pad that stimulates just enough for me to reach the O! I have also inserted the dildo into myself and the size is perfect. I have had a lot of sex with all sizes of penises, but this one is perfect (and I enjoy all varieties of sizes). It’s the goldilocks medium of just long enough to reach my cervix and just thick enough to add pressure on my g-spot. Haven’t tried it in anal yet, but seems like the size and texture would be fantastic. I can’t wait to try on lovers once quarantine is over! Great for both the penetrator and the penetrated. Doesn’t slide out easily which helps with confidence and is very encouraging as it pleases both lovers. Also doesn’t smell or taste weird.
Lemonmelon (verified owner) –
Perfect for FTM
I’m a trans man who has been struggling with gender dysphoria a lot. I am often in the mood to masturbate but I get upset because I feel as if I am meant to have a penis, and so masturbating normally makes me feel kinda sucky. I’d had the idea of using something like this for masturbation for a while now and I finally bought one to give it a try. OMG. For the price, it feels pretty realistic. The fact it can be adjusted to the perfect position meant I could rub the toy and actually feel it. It felt better than using just my hand, and the fact that having a penis felt so right just really added to how great it was. I 100% recommend to any trans man who feels as if they should’ve been born with a penis. It’s honestly amazing and felt so right.
Foxylealover (verified owner) –
Just the right size
The size of the shaft was a perfect fit for me, felt very realistic and was very pleasurable to take. The only down side is that it is very difficult to get it to stay in place for my wife. And didnt really do anything for her. (Which is why we purchased)
Incognito138 (verified owner) –
Mind-blowing
This toy is of the best quality, soft to the touch but, firm when inserted. The raised veins & realistic head hit that spot🤤🤤 had my legs shaking.Still had to use a harness as my partner gets used to it, but so far so good. The only two minor issues I have are of personal taste. 1.I would have preferred a wider choice in colour selection. 2. I would have preferred a few extra inches, if they could make a 9″ insertale shaft that is 2″ wide I’m sure it would sell like hot cakes, n I howdy buy that as well, appart from that the works like a charm
Incognito138 (verified owner) –
Mind-blowing
This toy is of the best quality, soft to the touch but, firm when inserted. The raised veins & realistic head hit that spot🤤🤤 had my legs shaking.Still had to use a harness as my partner gets used to it, but so far so good. The only two minor issues I have are of personal taste. 1.I would have preferred a wider choice in colour selection. 2. I would have preferred a few extra inches, if they could make a 9″ insertale shaft that is 2″ wide I’m sure it would sell like hot cakes, n I howdy buy that as well, appart from that the works like a charm
Incognito138 (verified owner) –
Mind-blowing
This toy is of the best quality, soft to the touch but, firm when inserted. The raised veins & realistic head hit that spot🤤🤤 had my legs shaking.Still had to use a harness as my partner gets used to it, but so far so good. The only two minor issues I have are of personal taste. 1.I would have preferred a wider choice in colour selection. 2. I would have preferred a few extra inches, if they could make a 9″ insertale shaft that is 2″ wide I’m sure it would sell like hot cakes, n I howdy buy that as well, appart from that the works like a charm
Incognito138 (verified owner) –
Mind-blowing
This toy is of the best quality, soft to the touch but, firm when inserted. The raised veins & realistic head hit that spot🤤🤤 had my legs shaking.Still had to use a harness as my partner gets used to it, but so far so good. The only two minor issues I have are of personal taste. 1.I would have preferred a wider choice in colour selection. 2. I would have preferred a few extra inches, if they could make a 9″ insertale shaft that is 2″ wide I’m sure it would sell like hot cakes, n I howdy buy that as well, appart from that the works like a charm
Jordan (verified owner) –
FTM Review
After seeing that the renowned Tantus Realdoe has stopped being manufactured, I immediately turned to Lovehoney find something similar. Hell, I’ve been looking at this for a while, and after some long As a disclaimer, I don’t have much bottom dysphoria when it comes to daily life, toilet duty, etc.. When it comes to solo masturbation (no one to share my joy with), I get really dysphoric, and pretty frustrated. This strapless strap on is made of really velvety soft silicone, and it blends with the colour of my skin perfectly. I love the definition of the veins, the head—even the light coronal ridge running up the back! My only niggle would be maybe a little realistic colouring on the head and veins, but for this price, it’s genuinely the best product I’ve come across. Even the Fuze Tango (a very similar product) doesn’t have that sort of colouring, and it’s about +£40! The egg-shaped bulb, isn’t the largest, which is a good thing! However, I must admit that I had to warm up with a vibrating love egg the second time I used this, because I didn’t want it to hurt as much. When you take this thing out of you, you’ll know about it. The egg gets wider toward the base, and then immediately drops into a stem that connects the dick to the *anchor point*. I’ve found lubing up both the stem and the anchor point makes it a lot easier to insert— and then you’re off! I don’t think I’ve ever felt so anatomically complete. Wearing a pair of boxers with the shaft sticking out of the open fly, it looks not far off the real thing (although if you wear a tight pair you may have an issue with it grinding against your pubic bone- painful!). I know there’s a vibrating option, but I’m very happy with this version. If, however, Lovehoney could be so kind and amazing to make a lifelike strapless strap on like this, but with balls near the stem/just at the end of the shaft? I’d gladly pay the world for it!
Cola B. (verified owner) –
Top choice for a top
Realistic and lifelike with great flexibility for all positions. It may take time to get used to the positioning, but overall, it’s a passionate & pleasurable experience for both! Skin tone & size made me feel very euphoric for a trans Male – all for a fantastic price too! I would highly recommend using this if you & your partner are both down! Use lube for comfort & stay safe 🙂
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Its fine
Too flexible, doesn’t really apply pressure to desired areas as it bends away from them during use. The skin texture is nice. Its obviously easy to clean. The wearer side is nothing remarkable. It’s fine overall.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Excellent
Excellent
LL (verified owner) –
Bit off more than I could chew.
We’re a cis-het couple and got this to add to our pegging toolbox. It’s gorgeously crafted, good quality toy, just a little too much for me (M) at this point. Definitely looking forward to doing the necessary practice to work up to it.Hasn’t done a whole lot for my partner (F) as I haven’t been able to really get into it when she’s topping. Will definitely keep working on it and explore incorporating some bullet or ring vibes to supplement.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Shipped Quickly
We haven’t used it, yet. But it looks sturdy enough for use. The dildo is long but not very thick. It should be fun, though.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Super uncomfortable!
Super uncomfortable and doesn’t stay in
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Good toy, just not for us.
You can pose the actual penis a little bit and also the joint between the penis and what is inside of you. But its a little too flimsy/easy to move for us. You have to work a lot harder to get it to stay at the angle you want. Also the penis portion was more rigid that we like, as in the definition of the head was rigid which just isn’t for us. We will still get some use out of it but it wasn’t exactly what we wanted.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Very much YES
I’ve always wanted to penetrate my husband, but he won’t let me near his bumhole. Watching him worship my cock with his mouth was worth it though. The veiny but soft texture is so nice tactilely, I kind of just like holding it and stroking it without any other benefit. The bulb is nice and filling, but I’ll definitely have to strengthen to endure standing with it for longer. Very nice. Highly recommend.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Amazing
My partner and I love this. We’re both transmasc folks and this is great for relieving bottom dysphoria and having a fun time. Feels great and we love that it’s bendable. My partner was concerned that the bulb might be too much for them but with a little foreplay it actually ended being perfect for them. Plus I love that it has a little more girth than most strapless strap ons. It la definitely one of my favorite toys to be penetrated with now and my partner also enjoys masturbating while “wearing” it. Definitely recommend.
Peggingfantasy (verified owner) –
Amazing orgasm for you and your partner!
This product is great for couples first jumping into pegging. The width and length was perfect for my virgin anal hole. Apply good amounts of lube. Go slow. The vibrations were perfect. You can change the pattern and intensity of vibrations easily. We orgasmed together due to the vibrations pulsing strong enough for my partner and me. The texture is smooth and nice. Limited positions due to her getting too wet and slipping out but after many uses her vaginal muscles are stronger for more positions.
H_W (verified owner) –
Feels like the real thing!
I got this for solo play because normal dildos don’t have anything to hold onto and I always hurt my wrist. The posable angle is great, and the lifelike shape is amazing! I’m not usually vocal during solo play but first time using this had me moaning like it was the real thing. Very satisfied customer.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Not very lifelike
This sucked it was too hard and uncomfortable
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
overall well worth the price
Silicone feels like it is high quality, and the bendable part doesn’t seem like it will break any time soon. It stays where you put it for the most part. It sits comfortably inside without feeling like much until it presses against the g spot from movement. The ridged part that rests against your front when you wear it also feels very nice. Gentle enough for sensitive anatomy imo. I am trans, so I was worried that it would not fit with my anatomy, however that was not an issue because of the bendability. It is very affirming to be able to jerk the dildo off and also be able to feel it–on both the upstroke and the downstroke. I have not used this with my girlfriend yet, but it does not seem like it would be suitable for all positions. It’s simply too large/heavy to not slide out if you are any amount of aroused while standing, unless you can hold it in place with your thighs. Riding might work best.Even if it doesn’t work for partnered activities without additional support from a harness (though it feels perfectly stable with just average boxer briefs) I’d say it’s worth the money for the solo play value alone.
Eve (verified owner) –
Oh my!
Bought this for solo use as I’ve always wanted to experience having male genitalia. This product is completing me as I had bottom dysphoria. It’s amazing. I feel totally happy now, like a piece of the puzzle is now found.Easy to use and fits well. Even had a orgasm!
HighRider (verified owner) –
Not lifelike - cold, too hard and painful
No matter how much lube I use I cannot insert this dildo. It doesn’t matter which end I use – it’s just too painful. The awful burning sensation makes it impossible to relax enough so I can use it. It’s also cold and hard as a rock with absolutely zero give. My partner and I have tried so many different dildos from Lovehoney (I’m afab and my partner is female) and all of them have been the same – cold and WAY too hard. I would have to literally numb myself down there to make insertion feasible. In all honesty, trying to find a user-friendly dildo on the market has been a frustrating and disappointing experience for us. I know there are women and afabs out there who struggle with pain during intercourse, and I just wish the market would remember that and consider expanding their products to offer us more options when it comes to flexibility/density. I also wish there were more strapless double dildo options that had a variety of realistic skin tones, not just purple or super pale white. As part of the nonbinary community, I’m a masculine creature and those colors don’t look natural and make me feel dysphoric.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Definitely worth it!
Definitely worth it!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Best one out there, it's
Best one out there, it’s our second
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Exciting
The curved design allows the head of the penis to press right up against your prostate as it slides in and out. Also looks super hot on my fiance, she also likes the way it feels against her clit while shes giving me a pounding.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
So happy
After reading other reviews, I thought I can’t go wrong giving this a try. Being a trans man I have always felt odd because I enjoy some penetration and this certainly hits Every spot in all the right ways. I am a big guy so it took some time to get it in the right position and I did keep my underwear on the keep it in position, my only wish would be to have the insertable part a bit longer again that’s probably because of my size. I bought the one with the vibe but happy to know it’s sturdy still without it, the vibe is very powerful and can be felt throughout the entire toy, way too much for my enjoyment but that may change in the future, the toy itself has a silky kind of texture and is very firm, I found myself just stroking it for a few hours after I got it because I enjoy the sensation, this toy will be my 1st go to toy for long time.
PuppyBoy203 (verified owner) –
Best £50 I've ever spend
I had actually bought this from lovehoney on Amazon for a change but just had to come here to review because it’s absolutely incredible!Im a trans man, figures why id want this so bad. I finally bought this after eyeing it for months worrying I’d regret it. I dont take huge issue with whats going on below and I usually like to be bottom, but recently wanted to spice it up for me. Perfect product to do it with.Using it as the wearer:Its silky and very easy to insert, very comfortable for me personally, it didn’t feel odd and bulky as I’d worried it would. Still practicing at keeping it in place but it doesnt necessarily fall out if that makes sense? Still trying to work on angles that provide external stimulation though but i can see its not a product fault. I always knew this would take practice anyway, but so far successfully orgasmed a few times so 10 points for that!Taking the dildo end:Cant lie when i tell you i said WOW which i have never done with any of my MANY dildos! I never ever understood why people always went on about veins etc for added texture as it never did anything for me, but this is a whole different story! I felt everything and it was incredible! Lets just say, things got messy fast! (In the best way possible!) Absolutely my favourite thing ever now, I’m so damn happy i bought this
Harlow (verified owner) –
Good but not great
For the price it could be better.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Strapless works
This works pretty well! It stays inside and only becomes a bit of a slip-risk when super wet and certain positions. Could be a bit better though. There’s some sort of wire inside that helps you bend it into the right position, but it’s always easier for it to bend apart during the deed than it is to bend together, so the clit stimulation bit doesn’t really do much. Would maybe be best for people who don’t need much clit stimulation and rely more on the internal feeling.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Incredible for dysphoria & pleasure
As a trans man, this is amazing for dysphoria in the bedroom! My partner and I love how I can orgasm when they give me a “handjob” while wearing it 🙂 We have yet to use it for pegging, but everything about it is amazing so far. I can’t recommend it more!!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Will take some getting used to
New to pegging the BF I was tempted with this as it had the best reviews.I personally think that the shaft could do with being just a few inches longer, as it either popped out of me, or popped out of him, so need to keep trying until we find the best position I think
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
The material is perfect doesn’t
The material is perfect doesn’t smell like most toys easy to use and we definitely enjoy using it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Gay trans man approved :P
This is the best dildo I’ve used for partner play so far. Feels great inside me and soft enough for my partner to enjoy as well. I found it useful to wear my strap-on harness to help hold it in place better
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Good but not great
This is a solid strapless strap-on, with decent firmness and a really lovely feeling. Like many, it’s just not big enough if you like to be filled, and the pony (insertable part in the top) isn’t quite big enough to stay in if the wearer gets very wet. The length is a bit short too, as some of it is unusable due to positioning. Solid, but just not big enough to work well.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Good but flawed
My partner and I bought one of these so that she could get some pleasure whilst pegging me.On first impressions, the quality is good, it’s somewhat bendable to get how you like it, and to be honest it looked great on(in?) her.From my side it felt great, but for her it was a struggle to keep it in. She also says it “felt weird” inside her.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
great option for trans guys!
More comfortable and usable than I was expecting given my past experiences with other double-ended dildos. I enjoyed the feel in my hand and the internal & external feedback for solo play. It’s unnaturally pale even against my very pale skin, but the seam blends well under my public hair, and in person it’s clearer that the shaft texture is actually more like a pulled-back foreskin than just veins, which was a delightful and affirming detail. The internal bulb is a little smaller than the other models of this kind we’ve owned, but somehow that’s made it stay inside me more securely. For sex with my wife, we were very happy with the length and poseability – we’re both larger people, and have had issues with other dildos having the right length or positioning around full thighs & bellies, but this reached everywhere it needed to, and my wife really enjoyed the texture of the head on her end.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
great option for trans guys!
More comfortable and usable than I was expecting given my past experiences with other double-ended dildos. I enjoyed the feel in my hand and the internal & external feedback for solo play. It’s unnaturally pale even against my very pale skin, but the seam blends well under my public hair, and in person it’s clearer that the shaft texture is actually more like a pulled-back foreskin than just veins, which was a delightful and affirming detail. The internal bulb is a little smaller than the other models of this kind we’ve owned, but somehow that’s made it stay inside me more securely. For sex with my wife, we were very happy with the length and poseability – we’re both larger people, and have had issues with other dildos having the right length or positioning around full thighs & bellies, but this reached everywhere it needed to, and my wife really enjoyed the texture of the head on her end.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
great option for trans guys!
More comfortable and usable than I was expecting given my past experiences with other double-ended dildos. I enjoyed the feel in my hand and the internal & external feedback for solo play. It’s unnaturally pale even against my very pale skin, but the seam blends well under my public hair, and in person it’s clearer that the shaft texture is actually more like a pulled-back foreskin than just veins, which was a delightful and affirming detail. The internal bulb is a little smaller than the other models of this kind we’ve owned, but somehow that’s made it stay inside me more securely. For sex with my wife, we were very happy with the length and poseability – we’re both larger people, and have had issues with other dildos having the right length or positioning around full thighs & bellies, but this reached everywhere it needed to, and my wife really enjoyed the texture of the head on her end.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
great option for trans guys!
More comfortable and usable than I was expecting given my past experiences with other double-ended dildos. I enjoyed the feel in my hand and the internal & external feedback for solo play. It’s unnaturally pale even against my very pale skin, but the seam blends well under my public hair, and in person it’s clearer that the shaft texture is actually more like a pulled-back foreskin than just veins, which was a delightful and affirming detail. The internal bulb is a little smaller than the other models of this kind we’ve owned, but somehow that’s made it stay inside me more securely. For sex with my wife, we were very happy with the length and poseability – we’re both larger people, and have had issues with other dildos having the right length or positioning around full thighs & bellies, but this reached everywhere it needed to, and my wife really enjoyed the texture of the head on her end.
Emma (verified owner) –
Not the best…
Overall, not impressed. The feel of it as the receiver is okay and it looks pretty good too, which made me feel a lot more confident.However, it’s quite heavy and it just kept falling out as the giver meaning we couldn’t use it for pegging.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Amazing
Tried alot of different ones and they have been okay but this one is definitely the best worth every penny
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Fabulous
My partner and I love this it’s a perfect size and is an amazing toy to add to our collection tion.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
great little thing
Only used this once at the moment with one of my girl friends . A little difficult to get comfortable in me pussy but once in I was able to pleasure my girl friend without the hassle of using a strap-on.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Slippy
Difficult for some dual action. The insertable portion for the strapper was not “bulbous” enough!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Pegging delight
Great strap on for us as a couple as the wife doesn’t like harnesses. It stays in and the life like feel of the dildo feels great. The wife loves the textured part as it runs on her clit and she orgasms as well
samtyler26 (verified owner) –
Amazing for trans masc euphoria
As a non-binary person I bought this mainly for masturbating and also to use on my male partner. Have only used it for self play so far but I am obsessedddd. Experienced the most intense orgasms just wanking it off as if it was a real penis not needing to stimulate myself with my fingers at all. The ribbed pad to grind against works so well for clitoral orgasm, the penis end feels so good in my hand and the other end fits really nicely inside me and looks and feels great making the orgasm more intense. 5 stars for gender euphoria, the most realistic strapless i’ve tried so far. I can see how in certain positions it could slip out especially if you’re really wet but i’m still very excited to use it on my partner.So glad I got this on sale too the best £35 i’ve spent.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Really uncomfortable
My partner and I hoped this would be a good replacement for a strap on but it’s super uncomfortable (for both of us). It’s really hard and rigid and both sides are quite big.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Hit the "spot" for both of us
Used a harness in addition to the insert, so I’m not sure how well it would work without the harness, but my partner and I both really enjoyed it.
FTM (verified owner) –
Our Top 2
We really wanted a good strapless strap-on and decided to opt for this realistic looking one first. It is ALMOST perfect, but not quite there. To be honest, we totally suggest the blue “Lovehoney Posable Strapless Strap-On” over this one!We would prefer a realistic one, but it’s not a dealbreaker to have the blue one, which is extremely similar, but lacks a vicious edge that this one has. The head on it is VERY pronounced, and it would catch on my partner to the point where they braced themselves every time we used it. Otherwise it was pretty great, aside from wishing it was maybe a bit thicker. However, the “Lovehoney Posable Strapless Strap-On” eliminates that vicious edge and also has a bigger pony, whose design is WAY more secure.