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Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs
Original price was: $94.99.$69.99Current price is: $69.99.
Key features
- Adjustable metal spreader bar with padlock system for secure bondage play
- Bar and cuffs are adjustable, so you can tailor your play to suit you
- Splits into 3 pieces to make it super-easy to take on your travels
- Includes 4 x padlocks and 8 x keys for cuffs so you’re never left short
Description
Enhance your bondage play with this versatile spreader bar from Bondage Boutique. Complete with 4 leather cuffs lined with faux fur to bind your lover’s wrists and ankles, this restraint device is the perfect addition to any bondage collection.
Test your sub’s flexibility by adjusting the length of your spreader bar between 18 and 26 inches using the removable metal pins. 4 leather cuffs lined with faux fur extend along the length of the bar for wrist and ankle restraint.
The cuffs are adjustable between 7.5 and 12 inches in circumference, enabling you to achieve a perfectly tight, but comfortable fit every time. The wrist cuffs are static, but the ankle cuffs can rotate up to 180 degrees, allowing minimal movement, without release.
Use the 4 included padlocks to detain your playmate, keeping the keys safely out of your sub’s sight. This set comes with 8 keys, so you’ll have plenty of spares, just in case.
| Fastening | Lock and key |
|---|---|
| Length | 26 inches |
| Fabric | Leather |
| Material | Metal |
35 reviews for Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs
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Meckmulle (verified owner) –
Nothing stopping me now
What a magnificent contraption! Obviously it can be used without connecting the handcuffs. Ok it would have been almost too perfect if the handcuffs were detatchable too. The flexibility makes the spreader mobile and still there is rod enough for me to spread her wide if needed. The one single drawback on this one is the quality of the padlocks. I wouldn’t risk using them. When I was investigating the spreader, some of the padlocks fell apart and others didn’t open as expected. As I already needed a snaplink, I bought four more big enough just for this toy. Unless your victim is Houdini there is no way anyone will be able to open even one snaplink, as long as both hands and feet are secured to the spreader. If really locking someone to the spreader is the main attraction, make sure to buy quality padlocks.
Jammywesser (verified owner) –
Spread them wide
When we received this spreader bar, we couldn’t wait to use them. They are very durable and have been using them for the past few months. I restrained my girlfriends wrists first with silk ties before restraining her legs with this spreader bar and got down to business. These provide more excitement in the bedroom and enjoy using them, would be great for beginners and are very comfortable to wear. Would definitely buy again but these look like they’ll last for years.
Gloscouple (verified owner) –
Such a fantastic product
When this item arrived, I pulled the Bondage Boutique Adjustable Spreader Bar.out from the sealed plastic bag. The quality of this product is great, it is definatley going to last! We fell in love with the item straight away. This item does looks like a luxury product. One thing is just that on Lovehoney website it shows the handcuffs in brown, but ours arrived and is all over black, but we do like this better. The bar size is very easily changeable and is very comfy to wear in any position. I enjoy wearing this and enjoy seeing my partner in this too!
Bs3543510 (verified owner) –
Beautifully Crafted
As with all LH products, packaged discreetly! Thanks for saving me the embarrassment with the postie guys! Exactly what the title says! Beautifully crafted bit of kit! You can really feel the quality of this item from the pins that hold the bars together to the cuffs. The ONLY thing that feels a little tacky are the tiny padlocks. It wouldnt take houdini to break out of those padlocks however thats easily sorted by swapping them out for your own preference. The bar extends to a comfrotable yet challenging length for the OH, shes only small so at full extension it leaves her wide open! The cuffs contain a beautifully soft interior that makes them incredibly easy to wear for extended periods of time which is nice with a bit of slow building bondage play. The cuffs in the middle only add to the pleasure as you can really get your partner in some interesting positions. May favourite is to have the OH stood, bent over, with her hands cuffed between her legs with the bar at full extension. This not only leaves a stunning view but also allows me to do what ever i want. As with any bondage play its important to have some ground rules set out before you start playing with these things. Once you get proper padocks on these they are nearly impossible to get out of so make sure your partner knows how to tell you to stop.
Jcalledt (verified owner) –
Great bar
I bought this to use with my partner and we both loved it. The cuffs are comfortable, being adjustable means you can get the perfect position and on a personal note, leaves you with a great view. Its solid, leaves no room for movement and its a great addition to the toy box.
Robk92 (verified owner) –
Excellent spreader bar
Me and my girlfriend bought this, it came well packaged in the box. The spreader bar is well padded and uses real padlocks for a added sexy feel. We have used it three times but found it hard to use is some of the positions we have wanted to. Great bar but wasn’t for us. But I would recommend it
Datura93 (verified owner) –
Definitely Worth It
Before buying this spreader bar I had wanted one for a very long time and I wasn’t disappointed after trying it out. The bar is very easy to adjust and at max length I found my movements wonderfully restricted and also that it was impossible for me to close my legs at all. Something my boyfriend greatly appreciated. The inside of the cuffs is soft and feels great when they’re nice and tight. I also found the padlocks to be very useful and prevent and means of escape without the key. The only negative I found was that the pins could be a bit fiddly and took time to line up perfectly when we would rather have been focusing on other things. Also it made it slightly difficult to adjust the length when my legs were in the cuffs. This bar would definitely be great for anyone wanting to be completely at their partners mercy as it is easy to use but also very restrictive to movement.
Meandthemrs (verified owner) –
Great for beginners and pros alike
This bondage bar and cuffs was a brilliant buy. The cuffs are thick and sturdy whilst being lined with a soft fur inside to keep the recipient in some comfort while in use. The bar itself is adjustable so can be kept closer together for the more inexperienced or shy participants of bondage play. It can also be extended three times more on each side individually so you are able to find the size that you wish for anybody of any size and this means that you can always mix it up so you will not get bored of this item anytime soon. The padlocks and keys are small but serve their purpose just fine, although they can be a little fiddly so safety is recommended while in use of this item as it should always be considered for any bondage play. Brilliant product that will give you plenty of use time and time again.
Swedishinlondon (verified owner) –
Restraint fun
Love Love Love my spreader bar. The cuffs are flexible and the fur lining makes them really comfortable. Having the adjustable length is also brilliant. Love the little padlocks although they are a bit fiddly. Have had a lot of good times using this. You’re not going anywhere when strapped into this thing 😉
Shaggy88 (verified owner) –
All tied up
Brought this as a surprise for OH rly like the look of the product and tbe material is kinky. very comfy to wear. Padlock works wonders as no getting out of it. Rly enjoyed the fact the the bar is extendable the only problem with the product was that the pins work themselves loose easily.
Kircle (verified owner) –
Love it
I’ve been wanting to get this for a while now. And finally I decided to buy it. It is made really well the cuffs are really comfortable too it’s easy to adjust and my partner loves using it. Think it’s our new favourite bedroom toy. Delivery is discreet as always
Mr83 (verified owner) –
Feels a bit cheap
My SO had been dropping hints about us needing a spreader bar lately so I was thrilled when this bar came on special and couldn’t click buy fast enough!Upon arrival, the box had been slightly opened and had a sticker from Auspost saying it had arrived to them that way which had me feeling a bit embarrassed at first but it was all hidden with brown paper packing so it wasn’t a problem. When I presented the bar to my SO I was thrilled by her enthusiastic response but we were a little let down when we felt the quality. It’s sturdy and the extensions are easy to use but the leather is very stiff and has hard edges that cut in a lot making it uncomfortable. The inner plush lining is very thin and offers no help against the hardness of the leather.All in all we will probably try using it again, but when money permits we’ll pick up something that offers the same fun without causing awkward discomfort. Nothing wrong with a little pain during play but when it’s caused by cheap equipment it’s not the same kind of turn on 🙂
Mr83 (verified owner) –
Feels a bit cheap
My SO had been dropping hints about us needing a spreader bar lately so I was thrilled when this bar came on special and couldn’t click buy fast enough! Upon arrival, the box had been slightly opened and had a sticker from Auspost saying it had arrived to them that way which had me feeling a bit embarrassed at first but it was all hidden with brown paper packing so it wasn’t a problem. When I presented the bar to my SO I was thrilled by her enthusiastic response but we were a little let down when we felt the quality. It’s sturdy and the extensions are easy to use but the leather is very stiff and has hard edges that cut in a lot making it uncomfortable. The inner plush lining is very thin and offers no help against the hardness of the leather. All in all we will probably try using it again, but when money permits we’ll pick up something that offers the same fun without causing awkward discomfort. Nothing wrong with a little pain during play but when it’s caused by cheap equipment it’s not the same kind of turn on 🙂
Smi89 (verified owner) –
Sturdy
Not sure who likes this more, me or the other half.Fave position is to use this when she’s on her back, but also works doggy style and standing.Also extends if we want to use it just as a leg spreader, or if she’s feeling a little athletic.Doesn’t feel like it will break under pressure or with use.
Smi89 (verified owner) –
Sturdy
Not sure who likes this more, me or the other half. Fave position is to use this when she’s on her back, but also works doggy style and standing. Also extends if we want to use it just as a leg spreader, or if she’s feeling a little athletic. Doesn’t feel like it will break under pressure or with use.
Couplehavingfun (verified owner) –
Great fun
First this arrived fast and discreetly. Once unpacked it quick to put together and looks an exciting thing. It’s well made and looks good. My partner has small wrists and it held her fine. The adjustable spread is useful although a little fiddly. The cuffs lock with little padlocks which takes time but we found adds to the tension and excitement. Overall it does want it’s meant to.
Fatfunforever (verified owner) –
AWEsome
Very secure and very sexy Had me going crazy However the amount of locks meant that I instantly lost one on my first use when he undid my wrists But it’s still great and I just tie a knot using ribbon instead Love the sounds the locks make however, the sounds make it so much more sexy I don’t mind I lost a piece
Fatfunforever (verified owner) –
AWEsome
Very secure and very sexyHad me going crazyHowever the amount of locks meant that I instantly lost one on my first use when he undid my wrists But it’s still great and I just tie a knot using ribbon instead Love the sounds the locks make however, the sounds make it so much more sexy I don’t mind I lost a piece
Renren (verified owner) –
An Excellent Spread
I love this. I love this so much.It feels heavy, it feels durable, it took me way too long to work out how it extends but once I got it (it’s really simple, I’m just an idiot) I realised the full potential of this piece of kit.Because it can be taken apart it fits in the drawer, unlike previous bars that are impossible to store.It feels like a quality item, well constructed and able to stand a beating. While the option to change cuffs would have made this perfect, it’s a great addition to the scene and worth the investment. My only other issue is the fluff in the cuffs. While I appreciate the comfort factor (I’m the one that wears this contraption) the fluff is annoying and I would have preferred a thicker cuff and no fluff. But that’s personal preference!
Renren (verified owner) –
An Excellent Spread
I love this. I love this so much. It feels heavy, it feels durable, it took me way too long to work out how it extends but once I got it (it’s really simple, I’m just an idiot) I realised the full potential of this piece of kit. Because it can be taken apart it fits in the drawer, unlike previous bars that are impossible to store. It feels like a quality item, well constructed and able to stand a beating. While the option to change cuffs would have made this perfect, it’s a great addition to the scene and worth the investment. My only other issue is the fluff in the cuffs. While I appreciate the comfort factor (I’m the one that wears this contraption) the fluff is annoying and I would have preferred a thicker cuff and no fluff. But that’s personal preference!
Kinkyknix (verified owner) –
Great way to “spread” some festive cheer
Hubs was very pleased indeed with his naughty Christmas pressie 🤭 shame he hadn’t unwrapped it more carefully in front of the whole family 🤣Blushes aside, this has been my greatest gift so far! Really well made and can be used in various positions and can give a modest or very well executed spread! Loved the ease of use and the attached leather cuffs with little padlocks. Really well made and great value.
Kinkyknix (verified owner) –
Great way to “spread” some festive cheer
Hubs was very pleased indeed with his naughty Christmas pressie 🤭 shame he hadn’t unwrapped it more carefully in front of the whole family 🤣 Blushes aside, this has been my greatest gift so far! Really well made and can be used in various positions and can give a modest or very well executed spread! Loved the ease of use and the attached leather cuffs with little padlocks. Really well made and great value.
Traction (verified owner) –
Favorite Toy
This is by far my favorite toy thus far. Very comfortable, easy to use, and pretty study. At first glance it’s compact and that makes it discreet, however it can adjust all the way to a wide variety of sizes. Great toy for any sort of bondage play. Would definitely recommend!
Willlondon (verified owner) –
Favourite bondage device
Having bought spreader bars previously I tend to find them flimsy and lacklustre. Having seen the reviews for this device I thought it would be a good upgrade and how right I was.The pole itself is strong, made of solid metal which is unyielding, the cuffs themselves are soft giving a comfortable feeling and meaning they can stay on for hours! I really like the fact they all lock with padlocks, its a nice touch which means you really feel securely locked in as opposed to just straps. The padlocks that come with this are fairly good as opposed to the flimsy ones that tend to come with products which is another nice touch.All in all great for some kinky bondage games, this will keep your submissive in place for as long as you require!
Willlondon (verified owner) –
Favourite bondage device
Having bought spreader bars previously I tend to find them flimsy and lacklustre. Having seen the reviews for this device I thought it would be a good upgrade and how right I was. The pole itself is strong, made of solid metal which is unyielding, the cuffs themselves are soft giving a comfortable feeling and meaning they can stay on for hours! I really like the fact they all lock with padlocks, its a nice touch which means you really feel securely locked in as opposed to just straps. The padlocks that come with this are fairly good as opposed to the flimsy ones that tend to come with products which is another nice touch. All in all great for some kinky bondage games, this will keep your submissive in place for as long as you require!
Luke (verified owner) –
Fabulous Product - Fulfills it's purpose
Having regularly used BDSM products such as under the bed restraints, handcuffs, rope & other restraints.This bar ticks the boxes for its purpose, strong & sturdy whilst also being comfortable, the rotating ankle cuffs allow my partner to remain comfy throughout our sessions and well restricted.I personally prefer the bar with the wrist attachment as it allows maximum restraint quickly and easily with all one product. The keys and locks work easily and reliably but do feel a little flimsy at first but so far so good with fair amount of use and strain. I would recommend this product to any first timers or to those with long term bondage interest, the spreader bar is a must have to all potential Dom’s out there.
Andrew (verified owner) –
Lots of fun
So I want to start by saying that I love this type of product. Nothing more fun that forcing a girls legs apart while teasing and pleasuring her. I’ve found it helps them get into sub space as well with how vulnerable this product makes them feel. A must have accessory for any bdsm fan. With that said, this product has issues. I have actually purchased two now because the first one just snapped and broke after only a few uses. For this price, and the intended use, this really should be made of much stronger materials. Unfortunately, there really aren’t many alternatives on the market anyways and this is just such a fun toy, I had to buy another. Now I know we have to be much more careful when using it and there’s just some positions she can’t be moved in to without risking snapping it in half. It really kind of ruins the session when you have to remove it, readjust, and then put it back on. It works great though when she’s standing or tied up in a doorway.
lovexsarah.ann (verified owner) –
Good for intro to bondage
Fantastic addition for those wanting to branch out into bondage play. Sturdy design and adjustable features provides lots of opportunities for intense play. The product comes apart into three parts which make it easy to storage or even for traveling. The ankle cuffs can rotate, which allows for some movement but still restricts at the same time. Both sets of cuffs can rub on occasion and cause irritation to the skin. Also, the cuffs only open up so much which makes them difficult to fit comfortably for larger body types. Padlocks and keys being included is a great plus, but you can use cuffs without the padlocks if desired. The locking pins fall out constantly and the padlocks seems flimsy at best.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
It’s as good as it looks
First purchase of this kind of toy. Wife wasn’t as keen as myself to start, but once the cuffs were on and she was spread and then teased to the point of climax, she now can’t wait to get it out again.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Eye Watering
Bought this to use on the wife when shes in her heels and this bar its an eye watering sight! We love taking pics and vids of the wife and this made some amazing ones. Very good to stop her closing her legs when i use her clit stimulator.Overall decent build quality does keep the wife in place.
Freaky (verified owner) –
Bondage Fun For Any Experience Level
Wife and I bought this as our first leg spreader. We were pleasantly surprised at the quality of the piece. The cuffs (both wrist and ankle) have 8 slits for the locks. So petite and plus sized users alike should have no trouble making them fit.The bar should accommodate a fairly tall person when fully extended to it’s 2 ft. length. We haven’t used it at full extension, with my wife standing 5′ 5″.Some reviews have mentioned the metal paddlelocks clanging to be a bit of a distraction. We found the sound of the locks banging around during sex to be kinda hot.This spreader bar is well designed. The bar and locks give it a rugged look and feel, while the fur-lined inside of the cuffs keep things comfy. It is easy to use and the 8 keys provided help ensure a safe experience. The center wrist cuffs are firmly attached. So, if your flexibility is only so-so, you may want to explore a set of traditional wrist cuffs.There is a good value here in that, when you see your lover locked in this bar, you will completely forget how much you paid for it!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Spreader Bar
Sturdy spreader bar with comfortable cuffs, padlocks a little fiddly.
tired_n_hungry224 (verified owner) –
Nice Design but NOT DURABLE
I had seen positive comments about this product on multiple sites and was excited to try it on a weekend getaway. Unfortunately 5 minutes into having it on, the metal of left leg cuff snapped off the bar. I really wish that it hadn’t paid $85 for something that was going to last 5 minutes.
Happylad (verified owner) –
Fantastic fun
Comfortable and secure. My partner and I had huge fun restraining and teasing. It is secure once in the cuffs, the cuffs are comfortable and they are easily adjustable to fit a huge range of sizes.I felt the locks looked fiddly and flimsy. So prior to first using the bar I bought 4 cheap simple carabiner clips that lock the cuffs just as well but the added bonus of being easy to clip in and remove.In summary.Quick to get into.Comfortable to stay in for periods upwards of 15 minutes.Securely locked in throughout, no chance of escaping!My partner still could wriggle about to ensure she was comfortable.Easy and quick to unlock.We may play with the expandable feature in the future but even on the narrowest setting she was helplessly exposed for teasing.A super fun restraint. You will not be disappointed.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Spreader bar.
I cant tell you how good it was to see my wife in stilettos in the spreader bar. Her arse was tensed so tight. It was like drinking ten pints and looking at a curry.