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Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs
$39.99
Key features
- Unisex briefs with O-ring for strap-on sex and packing
- Soft and stretchy for comfortable all-day wear
- Suitable for dildos with 1.5 inch diameter
- Through-and-through O-ring design is compatible with strapless strap-ons
- Comes with a mesh bag for storage or gifting
Description
Trou down and strap up with these unisex harness briefs. Discreet enough to wear all day, immediate pegging, packing or strap-on play can be yours at any given moment, simply slip a dildo into the comfortable yet stylish briefs and let the fun begin.
Contrasting red seams add a flirty feel while the elastic waist ensures total comfort. Slip the toy of your choice into the briefs and let play commence.
Wear these briefs-with-benefits as everyday underwear or slip your favourite strap-on dildo into the O-ring for versatile strap-on play at a moment’s notice.
They’re compatible with dildos with a 4.75 inch circumference and, thanks to a through-and-through O-ring design, can be worn with strapless strap-ons too.
Comes with a mesh drawstring gift bag to store your harness briefs and toys and keep them in tip top condition.
Please note: Dildos and bullet vibrators not included.
Our model is a US size 8 and 5’6′ tall, and wears a size Medium.





Brahman (verified owner) –
This is a fantastic product, looks good, fits the wife perfectly, and gives her the confidence to really get going. Once you’ve had a play with it fitting and changing dildos is easy enough. Also this is comfortable enough to be worn as a normal pair of underwear. Can’t rate this harness highly enough. E
J1327 (verified owner) –
If you just can’t get used to the awkward straps and uncomfortable leather of a conventional harness this product is the perfect purchase for you. Extremely comfortable underwear-like fit with all the precision of a normal harness I definitely consider this a must have product if you often find yourself in the heat of the moment only to have to stop, strap up and get going again.
Bladyblah (verified owner) –
Ok, so I don’t usually post reviewa but these are worth it! Being bigger particularly on the hips I’ve found most standard buckle/belt webbing strap on harnesses to be uncomfortable after about 15 mins. No such problems with these they are so comfortable and now our go to strap on, they hold a multitude of dildos and will stand quite a bit of weight before they sag. We love them
Jenna T. (verified owner) –
Thought we would try these and they a so much better than a strap on harness. More comfortable and easier to use. They seem to allow you more control and dont sag and move around like a harness. Loved the little pocket to hold a little vide. Go with the suggested dildo for a great fit. My OH loves it when he sees these come out. The sizing was spot on
Tazzy84red (verified owner) –
Order arrived on time and in the usual discreet packaging. I’ll start by saying I’m a good size 18 and 5.6 I bought these in size 16/18 l/co and they fit me perfect. With a little room for more. They are really comfortable to wear and amazing for.pegging as they stay in place better than any harness I’ve tried. So me and hubby have been enjoying pegging for a while we started off with strapless strapons then onto normal harnesses I find them a bit of a flaff trying to get it on while in the mood it kind of puts a dampen on things when it heats up and I spend a good 5or.more minutes stepping in and doing the straps tighter. That’s were these little beauties come in handy. Just slip them on and your good to go. I keep hubbys fav toy attached to them so we r good to go in a matter of seconds. It’s easy to put a dildo through the ring support and holds in well without slipping. What I love most about these is the hidden bullet holder inside the undies so I can add a remote control bullet so hubby can please.me at the same time I please him. The quality is second to none everything.is in all the right places. I find it so easy to penetrate hubby while wearing these and have so much more control than using a harness. These ain’t the sexiest harness briefs lovehoney do but for me, being a larger girl I wanted to make sure I didn’t get muffin top with low rise. And these make me look and feel so confident. I would really recommend anyone looking into pegging of girl on girl to try these you won’t be disappointed. They wash up brilliant too. So no worrying about them going out of shape or wearing with washing. I’ve washed these about 8 times and still as good as new. No fading or bubbling.
Allthegoodnamesweretaken (verified owner) –
I have a dildo I adore which has a base that’s meant to rub against the wearer for stimulation, but I’ve had a hard time finding a harness that does the job right with it. Cheap standard straps-everywhere harness? Nope, fiddly, shifts and not comfortable. DIY using a jockstrap? Nope, no matter how much bands and elastics I put on there, the wiener just wouldn’t stay where I wanted it to. I then spotted this appealing looking thing and just couldn’t stop my finger from pressing the buy button. But I still had my doubts it would actually work! “Just cotton and elastics? This is going to be the DIY harness all over again.” But still, since the price didn’t scare me off, I figured it was worth a try. Got it in the mail today and promptly unwrapped it, took a look and immediately thought: Well, this isn’t going to work, it’s too flimsy and the hole is too high up. Talk about judging a book by it’s cover… Guys, I was completely wrong! It fits so snuggly and comfortable and is not going anywhere once you put it on! And the hole wasn’t as high as it first seemed. I actually discovered that it was a GOOD thing the hole was a bit on the high-side too, cause it firmly pressed the base of the dill against my own bits, which is just what I was on the look for. O-ring size was also spot on for an average dildo. Absolutely love the design and look of this too,dig the red trim, which is a big plus! Lovehoney, please consider making this in more colors, tho! Heck I’d even buy one in yellow with pink elephants on it! And I sure know I would like more then one of these <3
2:00 P. (verified owner) –
We have a couple of strapon harness’ but wanted something that can be slipped on quickly, especially when outdoors. These briefs are perfect. We use it with a 7″ Doc Johnson vac u loc dildo. We went to a nearby forest my OH slipped the briefs over her jeans, applied some lube and slipped it in to me. She said everything was easy and she felt totally in control and really connected. The thrill of using this outside and the ease of use is great.
Trio79 (verified owner) –
As always, Lovehoney’s sizing guide worked a treat, and the XL fit my wife’s hips perfectly. We already have a harness, but thought i’d buy these briefs and give them a go as a possibly more comfortable alternative. They certainly are, however unless your thrusts have zero friction the briefs will stretch and give a little around the O-ring. So my wife found she needed to use one hand to grip the base of the dildo and O-ring. Not ideal, but we were using a girthy dildo, perhaps a slimmer one wouldn’t cause this issue. Back to the harness next time, or maybe a harness & briefs combo? With all these things, keep experimenting with toys, harnesses and positions until you find what works best for you. Pretty good, not bad value, but also not 100% perfect for us.
Steven (verified owner) –
My wife doesn’t like harnesses as they chafe her, so we decided to order these pants instead. As ever delivery was quick and discreet. When they arrived I was a little worried they wouldn’t hold the weight of our dildos. But my fears were immediately put to rest she popped them on and put in our 7 inch red rider dildo. It held the weight up brilliantly. She loved the feel and the control that these pants offered too. She can also pop in a little bullet when she wants too. Absolutely brilliant buy. It take all sizes of dildo too. We have a few that are slightly wider than the o-ring is meant to take, but its stretchy so the fit perfectly.
Uhtred R. (verified owner) –
This harness is completely comfortable, no straps to dig into your skin and also no movement. The material is great quality and hasn’t lost any shape or elasticity through washes! you easily forget you’re wearing them! I wouldn’t use anything else now I have come across this product! If anything does ever happen to this I would just re-purchase this again! Great fit, great comfort, great product!!
Cuddlesandkisses (verified owner) –
in hindsight i wish i had bought the one size queen or a 2XL as even though i am at the lower end of the queen size range the 1XL is a little tight. i bought this to use with the Lovehoney Double Delight Adjustable Pink Vibrating Strapless Strap-On as having to keep my legs together to hold it in put a bit of a dampener of the fun. these work well with it and my partner is satisfied with my performance 😉
Lm2713 (verified owner) –
I was a little dubious at first, as this isn’t the sexiest of looks… But its absolutely worth every penny. Easy to use and definitely outperforms the usual strap on and their uncomfortable straps. Very comfortable and at no point did the dildo fall out of position. A must buy!
Charmin (verified owner) –
My GF and I recently tried pegging for the first time and bought a beginners set with straps. We found the straps did the job but they stopped the flow of play whilst we got them set-up, and they look a little ugly. So instead we decided to get these which should overcome both issues. As ever, LH delivered with zero issues and nice plain packaging. The briefs are good quality and fit great. We had no problems with them staying in place so didn’t miss the straps at all. They look so much better than straps, I would never go back to straps again.
Lovecrafthoney (verified owner) –
These briefs fit very well (I’m a size ~6 US and ordered S-M) and are easy to use. I opened the package and was balls deep about ten minutes later. I’m using this as an AFAB individual on my partner who is AMAB but I feel like the placement of the ring will make it work well for anyone.
Pegging101 (verified owner) –
Ordered these after my partner found that the straps where hurting her when going full on, order them for next day delivery and they arrived spot on time Product was in the normal brown box with just a plastic bag keeping it folded up. Once out of the plastic wrapping the harness has a lovely soft stretchy feel to it which worried me a bit, but once she slipped it to the strong waistband took control of any movement and it was amazing my partner loves the feel and can wear them under her cloths so when she gets home she can just slip the toy in and bend me over. Only other thing I’d say is just be careful on diameter size of the toy you use, our is on the slightly large side and room a lot of work to get it to fit but now it’s in we are loving the product and usually using it at least twice a week.
Darkvader (verified owner) –
Was looking for something I could use with a strapless strapon as my pelvic floor muscles aren’t strong enough to hold it in. Works perfectly as the hole goes all the way through & looks way better than the strap harnesses imo. I am 5’8 8.5 stone (size 8) so was worried they would be too big for my small frame. But they fit to size & are stretchy so I would presume with 8-10 size would fit a size 10. They look good too!
20% D. (verified owner) –
I really enjoy using these, as they are an enjoyable experience in delayed gratification. If you position your penis directly beneath the dildo, you get pressure but no friction. If your partner enjoys different shapes and textures, or really thorough sessions of penetration, these are a really fun way to not be so passive of a partner.
Daniel90 (verified owner) –
Using strap-on is a big turn on for me, BUT my partner doesn’t really like it because putting all the “equipment” on is cumbersome. That’s why we decided to try this. Usability: I was initially worried it would be a loose fit with the dildo flopping around too much, but to our surprise the dildo is just as secure as with a harness, without all the hassle of tightening straps and whatnot! Just slip it on like any pair of pants, and you’re good. 😀 Fit: My partner uses something between S and M, and we got this in S. Perfect fit. Tight (more so than a normal pair of pants), but not uncomfortably so. Comfort: My GF says this is vastly more comfortable than our harness, BUT it is a cheap thing with just normal plastic straps, can’t comment on higher end gear. But considering this is in the same price range as cheaper stuff, the briefs are vastly superior comfort-wise! Conclusion: Five stars and highly recommended for anyone looking for a simpler strap-on harness!
Arginine (verified owner) –
I was always curious about using a strap-on in my relationship, but my girlfriend and I have never used one and the classic straps were a bit scary for us, because they seem uncomfortable and difficult. That is why we decided to try this harness briefs and we were glad about this decision. The briefs are very soft and they fitted us both perfectly (we bought the S/M size, I am size 12 and my girlfriend 10). It was very comfortable to use this and we had amazing times together. The only issue for me was having to buy the dildo separately, because I was afraid of getting the wrong size.
Hannah02 (verified owner) –
This is so much easier to use and way more comfortable than a regular harness. No fiddling around with straps and a good strong material. Good quality material and looks just like regular underwear. Just make sure you don’t machine wash them as they shrink very easily as we found out The fit came up quite small too so order a size or two up. Also quite expensive for a pair of briefs
Capri20 (verified owner) –
Having ordered a Limpy soft-packer 6 inch, I was looking for suitable packing underwear to use in conjunction and came across these. I can completely see why other users are in love, they are simply amazing! The material is so soft and comfortable, more so than most of my regular underwear. Fixing the packing toy in place was easy and there was no issue with keeping it in place either. These briefs are allowing me to play out some of my favourite fantasies for which I am very greatful!
Sherry69 (verified owner) –
We’ve ordered a few different pairs of these….. & a few more on the shopping list 😉 Overall they’re very sexy & hold your preferred toy in place very well. We’ve tried them out with a good few different toys & to be honest if you’re using a strapless or double ended strap on these kind of pants are a MUST. If you’re new to pegging I would seriously recommend something these types of pants. It’ll save you fumbling around with your hands at crucial points of penetration which could really kill the vibe. Holding things like strapless strap on etc without these would definitely be challenging Overall… Must have 😍 Other halves input….. Agree with above, however to add on overall asthmatically pleasing and most importantly the waste band does not cut in creating muffin top. Very pleased 🤩🤩🤩
Tribiani (verified owner) –
I bought these 2 years ago and they are still going strong. The front does get a little loose and stretched after a prolonged period of time but once washed they’re fit like brand new. Only downside is you can’t change the size of the o-ring but the o-ring does fit a vast majority of toys
anonymous_couple (verified owner) –
Lady had used a leather harness with a metal ring prior to this purchase. Definitely a much needed and appreciated upgrade from both perspectives. Size was accurate. Must have lol
Mary (verified owner) –
These are very cute briefs, they fit well and feel good. But when it was time to play it didn’t hold our toy very well. It sagged and didn’t stay close against my body. Overall both my partner and I were very disappointed. Maybe we need a lighter toy.
Tkj (verified owner) –
So far I have only used them for packing as I haven’t had the chance to use them as a strap on due to social distancing and what not, so I can only review them for that particular aspect.The overall fit of them is nice, though I do prefer a loser fit which I imagine wouldn’t be viable for this kind of underwear seeing as how it would need the tautness to help hold the necessary dildo in place. So just be aware that even if you get your size, they will fit more snugly than other underwear that size.The ‘O’ ring is a decent size and fits the toys I have, which are about average girth. So when it comes to being able to use the briefs for sex, I know the dildos will fit well and won’t slide out. I also very much prefer the simplicity of being able to put on some briefs that fit, than worry about straps that could potentially slide or loosen.As for the packing side of them; the packer seems to shift around quite a bit, even though the briefs are quite tight which is a shame because I feel like that would have helped hold it in place better. The ‘O’ ring also causes some of the packer to bulge out, which I think also contributes to the unfortunate shifting of it.Overall the product does what it’s intended to do, and certainly seems to be focused more towards being used as a harness rather than for packing, which is completely understandable. If you want underwear that works as both, then this product is good for that. If you want underwear that looks and feels more comfortable then straps or a harness, then this is definitely a great choice. However if you want underwear you can use regularly for packing, then you would be better off finding ones that cater more towards that.
Emma (verified owner) –
These were a great way to start with strap ons when the actual straps felt a bit intimidating. We made sure the dildo we had would fit this O ring, and now it’s a go to! Because it’s underwear, it fits the wearer a little less tightly so there’s less control in your movements, but that can be a plus as well because every movement doesn’t jar your partner. Genuinely the only downside is we have to wash it after every use, which gets annoying without a washer in our apartment! Fantastic purchase, would recommend for anyone getting into strap ons but wants an easier, more convenient, and more comfortable option than anything with actual straps.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
They work amazing!!!! Snug and stay in place! Definitely would recommend
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I was super excited to get these, there super comfy and they fit both my partner and I very well.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
As a trans/nonbinary afab person, this provides not only a great harness for a strap on, but also indescribable gender euphoria. Not only good for holding a dildo, can also hold a packer with ease.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
True to size!
Glenn G. (verified owner) –
She can fuck my asshole as long as she wants I love my asshole fucked by a lady.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Works great! First time here with strap ons. These are comfy and held the dildo in place pretty well. I thought it would move a lot more than it did. Paired it with the color changing dildo, was a great purchase. Only thing is the underwear do seem to run a little small. Fitted is better with a strap on so it’s fine but i might have gone up a size knowing the fit now.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Fit is good, mostly true to size just slightly snug (L/XL = 12/14)“Appliances” fit well and easy to use.I like them soo much!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
comfy…but it can’t hold up a dildo… just sags like you stuck in the hole of your regular undies. worthless as a strap-on. waste of money.
MistressMay (verified owner) –
really works well, for pegging your boyfriend or fucking your girlfriend – it’s the ideal add on to the bisexual toolkit. I also like the crotchless lace ones, I got both and they both work really well.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Comfortable soft
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Very nice snug fit without slipping down. True to size. Held the dildo in place effectively.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
This product fits me perfect. I’m a plus sized girl and was apprehensive that this would fit, after trying it on I was very happy. It fit well, not too tight or loose
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Bought in combination with vibrator for 3-ways eith mu gf’s. Both have much “junk in the trunk”
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Way better than straps. Makes for hands free operation for the wife, plus she looks sexy in them!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I already destroyed 5 of these on a year.The work well until they fall apart
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Love it! Planning on buying at least one more. Husband loves it when I wear them out just as underwear…until later! 😉
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
No good for rough/hard play.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
This looks great on my wife she said it fot great and kept the dildo in place very well. Would definitely buy again.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I got this to go with a packer, and while it’s not a great match for that particular one, they still fit well and serves my purpose. Definitely snug, though, so consider sizing up if you’re unsure about that.
Queen_bee (verified owner) –
Worked amazingly for a first time pegging session, but I wish it had more body to the item to be able to hold onto larger toys without sliding off. Otherwise worked great for me.
AJ (verified owner) –
When I got this, I weighed about 40 pounds lighter than I am now that I’ve finally used it (180-220) and I have an XL. To my surprise, it still fits pretty well. My biggest worry was that it wouldn’t support the toy enough and it would flop around too much. But it supported it great! Love the product, and great for a first harness.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I am a trans man and I used this for my packer and play and it holds everything in place very well
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
It was a huge letdown, honestly sad I wasted money on it for it to not work.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I didn’t realize just how small the o-ring would be when I purchased. The head of the toy I ordered does not even fit through the hole. Unfortunately there is no way to switch them out so I’ll just be wearing as regular underwear I guess?!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
It’s very comfortable to wear.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Fast shipping and good quality item. But it runs small! The medium/large is more like a small/medium.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Comfortable and fits according to my expectations. This is the first “underwear” harness I’ve seen and having one is far better than not having this product, especially with travel. Suggestions to continue to improve: provide instructions on how the flap opens. The hole is too wide and we experienced bad ‘wiggle’ with the smaller 5.5 inch. I would rather pay money for a 5.5″-specific briefs harness than have a dual-size. Don’t want the toy to flip or wiggle is all.
Scott (verified owner) –
The hole is so small that it useless. The item description states it accommodates up to 4.75 in diameter toys. I guess if you have really skinny dildos it might work. The ring does not stretch at all so if you’re thinking this is a great way to peg or use it on your other you better check the size of the toy you have in mind
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
I cannot even begin to rave enough about the difference these briefs make. I’m a bigger AFAB person, and have tried strappy strap-ons before for play time with my husband and they just never allowed me to get the right angle or leverage. These briefs, however, worked magic and both my husband and my girlfriend gave rave reviews of the results. Everything stayed in place and felt in control the whole time no slipping and sliding around like with the strappy harnesses. They fit perfect and were very comfortable.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Love this new addition to my collection. It fits perfect and holds my toy in place. It was delivered in a timely mater. My husband said it looks sexy on me and he enjoyed the sex we had that night.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Have had a hard time finding a good harness. Tried this one and it works good but the hole in front may be a bit tight for thicker toys
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
It fits great. Also I can use with different sizes dildos.
Leslie (verified owner) –
Got this for my partner who doesn’t like the typical harness style that leaves you exposed. I compared other strapless brands/styles that didn’t seem as secure or well made, before I took a gamble on these. They are very comfortable to just wear, but also hold a dildo in place very nicely for hands-free fun. I also love that they are machine washable. I only wish the smaller pockets inside the crotch were a little larger. I was hoping they would be big enough to hold a bullet vibrator but they’re just a tad too small. Still a great purchase though!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
This harness is comfy and i feel more in control. I’d done some research for harnesses that are good for the bigger person and these got the review the deserve.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Good fit, comfy, holds dildo in place well. Exactly what I wanted. I sometimes feel a bit exposed in a traditional strap on, so this works for me.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Got this as a first harness for partner, who didn’t want a strappy harness. It held the toys we tried as advertised.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Works as described. I wish the ring was just a little lower.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
A good fit and perfect for peggingMakes the whole experience so much better.
clo-henaugh (verified owner) –
Me and my partner wanted to take our bedroom play to the next level, so we order this for them and another for myself. He wears a size or two smaller than me. Later we realized the o-ring was too small for the toy we had gotten to use for me and had to swap our straps, but it fit me no problem at all even though I wear a bigger size. Super easy to slip on and off and fit our toys into, super easy to clean too. It doesn’t roll up or down and it’s very comfortable to wear. The pocket for the vibrator is in a very good spot, even if it’s a bit of a snug fit sometimes.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
We’ve been wanting to get something for hands free penetration for ages and after much deliberation we decided this was a perfect starting point for us — and we were right. The briefs were comfortable for my partner, easy to figure out and eliminated the jumpscare factor of trying to figure out harness straps, and subtle enough that I can envision them wearing the harness on a date night so they can just plug and play by the time we fet home 🥵
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
These are a great, I love them. So much easier and sturdy than the other types of strap-ons. I would have given it a 5 star but it took a long time for it to ship and us getting it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Far better than your traditional “straps” Less awkward too! The dildo internally threads from inside the undies, and is surprisingly comfortable The ring is rubber and holds *everything* in place well too!
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Very happy with these. The dildo is secure, it sits very comfortably and there are no stray straps flapping about. Loved it.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Very nice product. Well made, good quality, decent for, and lived up to our expectations. We liked it so much, that we ordered a second one.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Worked very well. Didn’t slip and really holds toy in place.
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
The dildo itself wasn’t good, hurt and wasn’t enjoyable at all . Harness wasnt tight enough at all
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
XXL fits me and I’m a size 18/20. It’s soft and flexible and easy to put on quickly!
Lesbian24 (verified owner) –
Looks so good on my partner! A lot better than all those straps, literally pull up and insert for full on organism!
Nick (verified owner) –
I don’t get a mesh bag like how it said it would, a bit disappointing that I don’t have anything to keep them in
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
We have tried quite a few strap on harnesses. This one is easily the best so far. Didn’t restrict movement but stayed in place throughout. No matter how hard she pumped me, it gave her control and a consistent motion. It led to a very intense end. We would definitely recommend this
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
im happy shes happy we’re all happy
Verified-Customer (verified owner) –
Just excellent customer service, thank you!
CK_Couple (verified owner) –
We bought these as we wanted to give pegging a try but wanted something that was thst wasn’t too expensive aswell as quick and easy to put on.Ease of use: The pants are as easy as putting on any underwear. You just need to put the dildo in before putting on the pants.Comfort: the pants are tight but comfortable. The waist is elasticated and there was sufficient padding between the groin and dildo for when you are pounding away.Design and practicality: the pants have a one size O ring for inserting your dildo. We have 5, 6 and 7 inch dildos and they all fit. I did find that the pants held the dildos in place and didn’t feel like they would fall out. The 7 inches did sag away from the body slightly due the the weight. There is also a pocket on the inside that fits a vibrating bullet. I thought this was too high so didn’t quite get the clit.Cleaning: the pants need to be hand washed. I was so turned on during our session that I imagine these will need to be washed after every use.Who would suit the product: I would recommend these pants to a new couple looking to try out pegging. They are not expensive, easy to put on and hold the dildos fairly well.Beware: the description says the pants come with a bag but this is false. All you get is the pants. I did notice another reviewer warned of this but the bag was not really important to me. Hopefully LH amend the product description this time.